EIGHT THINGS HE LOVES IN BED......

1. When you tell him what to do

Don’t be shy, it’s okay to moan “put your tongue there baby.” Men love when women give them verbal instructions in bed. Why? Because men aren’t mind readers and they know that a little direction goes a long way. So if your man is having a little trouble figuring things out, don’t stay silent while he fumbles around you female parts. Tell him exactly where and how you want it. Hey, at the end of the day it helps everyone out.

2. When you let him watch you masturbate

Men are visual creatures. This means they get aroused by “seeing” you. That’s why men LOVE to watch women masturbate. But sometimes we ladies can be a bit shy about sharing “me time” with our man. Don’t be shy. Your man loves your body and he loves to watch. So be sure to treat him to a little masterpiece theater. Remember, he can look but he can’t touch. And while you pleasure yourself, this is also a great time for you to combine those verbal instructions with a little visual aid. And who doesn’t learn better with visual aids? ;) (my personal favorite)

3. When you take control

Most of the time men initiate sex. And we decide whether they’re going to get it. But just imagine how boring would it be to always chase down a man for sex, and then watch him lay there while we pleasured him? Don’t be that woman. Men find it thrilling when they don’t have to be the one to always initiate sex. And it’s always pleasing and exciting when a woman switches it up a bit by taking control from on top or down below!

4. When you talk dirty

It’s good to be a lil’ bad! So get a little naughty with the wordplay in bed. The ability to look your man straight in the eye and say, “I want to you to %$& me in the #%$ so ^*$# hard!” displays confidence. And like I wrote before, men love confidence. Plus, it has been shown that lovers who talk dirty together have better sex and stronger orgasms. So let loose, show him that bad girl side of you, and talk dirty to your man.

5. When you swallow

Ok, this is sometimes a hard pill for women to swallow- no pun intended- but your man loves when you enjoy every “inch” and every “ounce” of him. And for the ladies that totally object, think of it this way: How would if feel if your man was down on you and at your moment of climax, he turned away because he didn’t want any of your delicious juiciness on or in him? Think about it ladies…

6. When you tell him how great he is

Men are ego driven- especially in the bedroom. So while he’s thrusting, sweating, and putting in all that work, make sure you smile and tell him how sexy and great he is. Everyone, men and women, love compliments and appreciation.

7. When you play with his nipples

Women aren’t the only ones who experience pleasure from their nipples. This is an incredibly erogenous zone for both sexes. So when you get down to business tonight, don’t forget to lick, suck, and lightly pinch your man’s nipples. It’s an area on their body that gets neglected- so he will be pleasantly surprised.

8. When you share your fantasies

Everyone fantasizes. And if you and your partner are sexually open, then your man is definitely curious about your fantasies. Maybe it’s blindfolds, handcuffs or wearing a nurse’s uniform, either way, share your fantasies with your man. And ask him about his. Sex is about being fun and intimate. And a major part of intimacy is honesty. Share your fantasies with your man- and give him the opportunity to make them a reality!