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April 17, 2012

THOUGHTS ON BEING HIGH MAINTENANCE...

A friend of mine was talking to a guy who freely admitted that he “required a lot of attention” and was aware of this fact. He believed that he constantly needed to be stimulated. In my experience, it’s rare that a man own up to being demanding, high maintenance men. Often times, it is the women that get called needy and requiring a lot of work. Everyone has their own perception of high maintenance, be it positive or negative. I wonder, is it good or bad to be high maintenance? What if you are the one dating someone who requires a lot of attention, affection, stimulation, etc. Are there limits to this? How much are we willing to cater to this type of high maintenance person? If you believe the person is worth all that effort, do you make it work? What if they don’t reciprocate?

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