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June 30, 2009

HAPPY 25th BIRTHDAY TASIA...




THE BLACK THE BETTER...








AND GOD MAN THIS BLACK MAN....
(THANK YOU LORD)

ONE OF MY FAVORITE HITS FROM MIKE....



DIRTY DIANA WAS WRITTEN ABOUT DIANA ROSS. MICHAEL AND DIANA WERE CLOSE FRIENDS WHO WERE BEEFIN AT THE TIME...


IN CASE YOU DIDN'T KNOW...

"DIANA" IN THE VIDEO IS BEING PLAYED BY LATOYA JACKSON

June 29, 2009

THE GOOD, THE BAD AND THE UGLY...BET AWARDS 09






JAMIE FOX WAS FUNNY AS HELL BUT PROFESSIONAL

KIESHA COLE DOES NOT NEED TO EVER PERFORM THAT SONG LIVE AND GET OUTSUNG BY HER FEATURED ARTIST-MONICA


NE-YO SHOULD WEAR A HAT AT ALL TIMES...SERIOUSLY

LIL WAYNE IS GROWING ON ME...TATTS, DREADS AND ALL....

THE O'JAYS TRIBUTE FEATURED THREE OF THE BEST VOICES IN THE GAME AND THEY ROCKED IT....

June 27, 2009

SHORTY VS. SHAWTY....

shawty-

A term originating in Atlanta that, in the beginning, referred to a short person or child, but the span of the word has grown to include any and all people, especially a girl that is attractive; it is mostly used as a term of endearment to others or just a way of addressing someone, like 'Wassup Man,' Instead of "Man", shawty is used.

"Waddup Shawty, when you coming over?"

shorty-

Originally used to mean a young man, new to the game. By new to the game, I don't mean he just meant a rapper, but he just started selling crack, just started rapping, whatever, but even simpler it was a term used to mean just a person much younger than you.

June 26, 2009

WORD OF THE DAY....BOUGHETTO

bou-ghetto
A 2 part definition word. Bougie(n):An upper middle-class black person that possess snobby, rich-folk traits and mannerisms. Ghetto(n): Any black person or community fixated in severe urban areas, whether it be in the city or the country. One of the many epitomes of black cultures.

Combinate the 2 words: A well-to-do black person with underlying ghetto intetions. Usually their in denial of their up-bringing or family true background. When it sneaks out from them then their "bou-ghetto".
It can also be an adjective. It can describe a certain flare in fashion or it can be descriptive as in someone's behavior or actions.

PLEASE BOW YOUR HEAD FOR A MOMENT OF SILENCE

Psalm 23 (King James Version)

The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want.

He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.

He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.

Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.

Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.

Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the LORD for ever.

R.I.P.- THE KING OF POP...




IN LOVING MEMORY...FARRAH FAWCETT


June 24, 2009

11 FACTS ABOUT BLACK GREEK ORGANIZATIONS....

The more than 11 FAQ about Black Greek Organizations
(No holds barred)

1: What's the history behind the rivalry between the ladies of Alpha Kappa Alpha & Delta Sigma Theta, sororities?

This can be traced back to the year 1912 at Howard University. The 22 members of the Alpha Chapter of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority decided they wanted to change the direction of the organization. After splitting into committees and formulating reports on the idea at hand, they unanimously decided to change the name, colors, motto, creed, the shield, and the organization of Alpha Kappa Alpha. A graduate member (Nellie Quander) objected to idea at the finalizing meeting, and rallied enough support from other graduate members in the area and together they shot down the idea. The 22 members persistent in their cause were denounced of their membership in Alpha Kappa Alpha. They reorganzied under their own sorority known as Delta Sigma Theta. Thus the 22 founders of DST were in fact members of AKA. Thus from this the famous rivalry was started. *HINT: Delta (means change)

2. In relationship to Phi Beta Sigma & Zeta Phi Beta, what is meant by "true family"?

"True Family" is a term used by members of Phi Beta Sigma & Zeta Phi Beta for they were and still are the first constitutionally bonded Greek fraternity/sorority, brother/sister organization. Sharing the several of the same cardinal principles within each respective organization. Sigma & Zeta both share the same colors, creed, symbols from their shields, and the name sake of the PHI BETA. They are true originators of the terms "frat" & "soror".

3. So the Alpha's & AKA's, Delta's & Omega's, & Kappa's & SG Rho's aren't brother/sister organizations?

Formally the Greek organizations above aren't brother/sister or frat/soror. But each hold a mutual alliance to each other. "Phi-Skee" & "Skee-Phi" are terms used by the Alpha's and AKA's to represent their bond of being the first Black Greek Fraternity & Sorority respectively. But they aren't neccesarily frat or soror, but in many cases they do respect each organization as frat or soror. But The Alpha's and AKA's are known as the first family of Black Greeks. On some campuses the AKA's & Kappa's call each other frat or soror. United under the cause that "pretty boys like pretty girls, cause pretty girls like pretty boys." There's also the terms "Phi-Oop" & "Oop-Phi" is which the Alpha's & Delts'a use to acknowledge each other.

The Delta's & Omega's share a bond that can be traced back to the early years of their organizations. Although they aren't constitutionally bonded like Zeta & Sigma, they do indeed consider each other frat & soror. One of Delta's founders Edna Coleman was the wife of Omega founder Frank Coleman. Several Delta's dated Omega men early on within the early establishment of each. The Delta's flower the African violet has a double meaning, and one symbolizes the bond that they had with the Omegas whose colors are none other than purple & gold.

Kappa Alpha Psi & Sigma Gamma Rho hold the distinction of both being founded at universities in the state of Indiana. Which are about 50 miles away from each other. Back in the day SG Rho & Kappa's were tight due to the low African American population in the state. The SG Rho's did in fact learn how to cane from the brother's of K A Psi, but they aren't frat or soror.

4. What's the distinction between an "Omega Man" & a "Que Dog"?

An "Omega Man" is the name sake term bestowed upon members of Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Inc. once their members join the organization. A "Que-Dog" is a mythical term used to identify pledges while on line during the final stage of the pledge process. It's important to understand that "Que Dogs", canine calls, and camouflage paraphenelia doesn't directly reflect the enitre outlook of the organization as set in the guideline by the Grand Chapter. *Please note* Never address or call a member of Omega a "Que-Dog" for it is rather disrespectful. In essence "MEMBERSHIP HAS IT'S PRIVLEDGES!"

4b. "Why the DOG image"?

Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Inc. does not have, nor has it ever endorsed, a mascot of any type to be representative of the organization. So why do so many Omega Men like the "dog" image? "WE ARE NOT DOGS even though those who misunderstand us would view us otherwise because we possess a dawg-matic determination to make changes and the tenacity to see them through, the loyalty of man's best friend and the guardianship to protect the ones we truely love."

This analogy was written by the chapter members of Fayetteville State.

5. Was Alpha Phi Alpha the first Black Greek Organization?

Although credit is given to Alpha Phi Alpha as being the first & oldest Black Greek Lettered Organization, it must be known that Alpha Phi Alpha is the first to organize successfully and expand into new chapters. But before Alpha, there was Sigma Pi Phi. The fraternity was founded under the direction of Henry M. Minton in Philadelphia, Pennslyvania. This organization was founded for Negro's within the professional ranks of society. So in light Alpha Phi Alpha is the first to successfully grow, and is the oldest to date. But Sigma Pi Phi was the first.

6. Why do Black Greek organizations put each other down and not strive for unity?

Unity amongst Black Greek letter organizations was first implemented in 1930 at Howard University. In this year the National Pan Hellenic Council was formed as a governing body to aid organizations in a bond of common causes. Although some Greek persons do take Greek life to seriously, it is important that these persons have missed the enitre purpose of their founders and the organizations goals for the "upliftment of the black race". Each organization does employ chants, steps that out right in a Non-Greek persons eyes would be disrespectful. But it's merely a competition or a rivarly to keep each other on there toes. But each fraternity and sorority has a mutual understanding and respect for the others, it's just most of the time Non-Greeks don't see that. All non-greeks look for is who clowns the next group at a probate show, or who steps the best. Non-greeks look for the DRAMA and not the positives.

7. What do I need in order to pledge?

1st: You must be a full-time student at an accredited four year university or college. Matriculating towards a bachelor's degree.

2nd: You will have to have the GPA in order to join a Black Greek fraternity or sorority. Each organization has set guideline for the g.p.a. within the organization. The typical cummlative g.p.a. across the board is a 2.5. But it depends on the organization. The Kappa's national gpa is a 2.3, the AKAs are thinking of raising their g.p.a. of a 2.5 to a 2.8 nationally, the Delta's from a 2.5 to a 3.0. To be on the safe side a 2.5 g.p.a. is recommended. It also varies on college campuses also. Some colleges mandates a g.p.a. level for Greeks on there campus. Like at Tuskegee University students need to have a 2.8 cummlative g.p.a. in order to pledge.

3rd: Letters of Recommendation! Depending on the organization you'll need anywhere from 1 to 3 depending on the organization. These letters of recommendation must be from a member of the fraternity or sorority who is "financial".
Financial: is a member whose financial obligations like dues and fees are paid. Both on a local and national level. Also your letters must come from someone who knows you personally, because recommendations are verified.

4th: Community service hours. Several fraternities and sororities require prospective members to have provided some type of public service within the community in which they live. The Top Public Service Groups include: Habitat for Humanity, Voter Registration, Peer-Mentor(Big Brother/Big Sister Program), The American Red Cross, or The Boy Scouts or Girl Scouts of America.

*Please note* Just because you meet all 4 doesn't solidify your right to enter the organization. For after the informational, the interview, each financial member of the chapter votes on who qualifies and who doesn't.

8. Why do AKA's collect frogs, mice, and rabbits?

Within the organization of Alpha Kappa Alpha it's not traditional that members collect animals of any kind. The organization is represented by the ivy leaf and pearls only. Now some members do collect "frogs" which symbolize that the organization was growing in leaps and reaching new bounds. Some collect "rabbits" for it is said that when a baby rabbit is born the first sound it make's is a Skee-Wee. Then it's obvious why some AKA's collect "mice" for elephants are afraid of mice. Elephants are referring to a Delta Sigma Theta mascot.

9. Why do Delta women collect elephants & ducks?

The reason behind why Delta's collect ducks is currently unknown, but it is known there is a duck stage within DST's pledge process. But it is not public information around the symbolism behind the duck. It is known that Delta women collect elephants since one of the founders of DST was fond with the animal. So as a tribute they collect elephants as a tribute to their founders. It's tradition that once you cross the buring sands into Delta Land that the first 22 elephants that you acquire must be gifts. One representing each founder.

10. Why do Black Fraternities & Sororities employ Greek letters, instead of an African based alphabet?

The origin of Greek letters can be traced back to the first fraternity Phi Beta Kappa. It is important to understand that the Greek writing system and philosophies has connections to Africa, particularly Egypt. For the Greeks went to Africa and stole the writings, philosophies, and lifestyles of the Egyptians. Although each organization does employ Greek letters the objective of the fraternity was founded with the use of Greek letters. So in keeping with the tradition that constitutes the reasons why. But each particular organization employs some type of reference to Africa within the organization. To become Greek you should know the history that not only did the Greeks study in Egypt, but Jesus & Moses did as well. Also understand the concept of Phonetics and it's creators the Phonecians.

11. Are fraternities & sororities high classed gangs?


There are many argument whether or not fraternities & sororities are gangs. This basically goes in reference to the said similarities of the Black Greek pledge process and the gang initiation process. This statement is totally false. Fraternities and sororities are NOT gangs in any way, shape, or form.

THE EGYPTIAN CONNECTION TO BLACK GREEK LETTER ORGANIZATIONS...

In ancient Egypt only a select few were chosen to learn the rights of the dead. These were the ones who wrote with hieroglyphs and taught and buried the pharaohs. There were test that the chosen most go through in order to do this. In turn, in death there were stages that the dead must pass through in order to get to the other world. Remember the Egyptians believed that your body and possessions went with you, hence the elaborate burial rites and tombs (pyramids for Pharaohs, their wives and children).

1.. Your guide across the desert and through your trials was the light of the moon and the stars. Represented by the crescent moon or Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity. If you followed this it would take you where you needed to go. Horus - "High, Above" The falcon-god of the sun & the pharaohs.

2.. You must cross the desert to come to the place of testing -i.e. crossing the burning sands - which was nature which is said to represent Alpha Kappa Alpha. Remember the Ivy - the Egyptian Goddess would be Qetesh: A Semetic nature goddess worshipped in Egypt or in the Book of the Dead Sekhmet -- Re created her as a weapon of vengeance to destroy men for their wicked ways and disobedience to him.

3.. After crossing the desert the first thing you would come upon was the Sphinx the guardian of the tomb or pyramid - which obviously would represent Alpha Phi Alpha. You needed to solve the riddle of the Sphinx to pass.

4.. The vessel for your passage, the Pyramid. Which of course was taken to represent Delta Sigma Theta. Their Greek representation in Minerva and the Egyptian equivalent is said to be Isis "the Throne", the goddess of magic & widow of Osiris or Satet "One Who Shoots (Arrows)", the Elephantine goddess of the Nile floods & fertility.. You enter the Pyramid where the rest of your journey is shroud in secrecy.

5.. You must learn. Your lessons were given to you on a scroll. Which is said to represent Kappa Alpha Psi. The god was Thoth "Leader" The ibis-god of wisdom, writing & the moon.

6.. Bastet - "Devouring Lady" The cat-goddess of the home & sunlight. According to one myth, she was the personification of the soul of Isis. She was also called the "Lady of the East". As such, her counterpart as "Lady of the West" was Sekhmet. Said to be a representation of Zeta Phi Beta and the testing of the soul of the dead.

7.. After you had learned all you needed to learn and prove your worthiness to Bastet, now came the ultimate test. Remember that the major organs were removed during mummification. At this point you presented your heart to Maat - which as I mentioned before is said to represent Sigma Gamma Rho. Maat measured your heart against the feather on her scales. If your heart weighed more than the feather you could not proceed on to the afterlife.

8.. Finally, you met Anubis "the Royal Child" the jackal-god of mummification & embalming. Having the head of a jackal (a type of dog) he is said to represent Omega Psi Phi. He assisted in the rites by which a dead man was admitted to the underworld. Anubis was worshipped as the inventor of embalming and who embalmed the dead Osiris and thereby helping to preserve him that he might live again. It is said that the final test given by Anubis were physical.

BECAUSE IM IN THAT KIND OF MOOD TODAY....






ENJOY THE PICS...

I HAD TO USE ONE HAND TO TYPE THIS...THE ONE ONE WAS OCCUPIED...

THEY'RE BACK!!!!!



SANDRA ROSE REFERS TO THEM AS-

"The Real Foreclosed and Evicted Socialites of Atlanta Are Back"

THE DRAMA STARTS SOON...

June 23, 2009

HOOD SONG OF THE DAY...STR8 OUT OF ATLANTA

WHAT IN THE WORLD IS A BOI???

Boi (plural: bois) is a term used within LGBT and butch and femme communities to refer to a person's sexual and gender identity.

In lesbian communities, there is an increasing acceptance of variant gender expression and intersexuality, as well as allowing people to self-identify with labels such as boi.

The term may denote a number of possibilities that are not mutually exclusive:

A younger person who looks and acts like a young, heterosexual male, possibly embodying stereotyped attributes towards casual sex and commitment in relationships, in contrast with the stereotype of the U-Haul lesbian. Bois may not identify as butch, regarding butches as playing a more powerful or responsible role – the "man of the house" – while a boi is still in a freer, younger phase.
A submissive butch in the BDSM community, or a younger butch in the butch-femme community.
A male who identifies as a submissive/slave in BDSM.
A young transman, or a transman who is in the earlier stages of transitioning.
A term of endearment for butches by femmes.
It may also be used in the gay community to refer to a younger person – bisexual or gay – who may have effeminate characteristics. The term can also be used by anyone who wishes to distinguish from heterosexual or heteronormative identities.
Boi may also refer to a female-born or female-bodied person—sometimes transsexual, transgendered, or intersexed, sometimes not—that generally does not identify as, or only partially identifies as feminine, female, a girl, or a woman. Some "bois" identify as one or more of these, but they almost always identify as lesbians, dykes, or queers. Many are also genderqueer or practice genderfuck. Bois may prefer a range of pronouns, including "he", "she", or gender-neutral pronouns such as "hir", "sie", "zie", and "ey".
The term has found increasing usage in the larger LGBT culture.

June 19, 2009

GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER....FEEDBACK APPRECIATED

1) Favorite object in your room? My big California King Bed

2) Have you ever smoked heroin? Nah, not cool at all

3) Do you own guns? No but I'm interested in getting one

4) If you could have lunch with someone dead or alive who would it be?

My grandparents

5) What is your favorite food? Chicken-Fried, Baked, Jerk, Brown Stewed

6) Last person you kissed? I don't kiss and tell

7) Favorite song? Right now, "Futuristic Love"

8) What do you prefer to drink in the morning? Orange/Passion fruit Juice

9) Can you do push-ups? Over 50 back to back

10) Can you do a chin up? Maybe...Never try

11) What's your favorite piece of jewelry? My Kenneth Cole Watch

12) Do you like blue cheese? On Salads and in dressings

13) What is your bagel of choice? Everything with vegetable cream cheese

14) What is one thing you like about yourself? Comfortable with who I am

15) What's one trait that you hate about yourself? Overly mean

16) What's your middle name? Thomas

17) Name 3 thoughts at this exact moment?
What are we eating for dinner, I'm dreading the drive, What's Going On In American!!!?
18) Name 3 things you bought today? An oil change and that's about it SO FAR

19) Name 3 -5 drinks you drink regularly?

Lemonade, Orange Juice, Protein Shakes, Passion fruit Juice, Mango Juice

20) Current worry? What the future holds...too much uncertainty

21) Current hate right now? Economy

22) Current wish? Fortitude to endure right now what I can not control

23) How did you bring in the New Year? In church

24) Where would you like to be right now if you could choose? Exactly what I'm doing, expressing my thoughts

25) Name three people who will complete this? Hopefully people who read my blog

26) What CD is in your player or car right now?

A mixed CD featuring Money, RiRi, and others...

27) What shirt are you wearing right now? White T-Shirt

28) Do you like sleeping on satin sheets? NO...Maybe...I don't know

29) Can you whistle? Like a PROP

30) Favorite color? Blue...any shade

31) Would you be a pirate?

Only if I can rape and pillage the really, really rich...(a joke)

32) Where is your cell phone? On charge to my left

33) Do you like the cold or the hot weather?

Hot...Spring and Summer hot

34) Do you sleep on the right or left side of the bed?

Right side of MY bed, left side of the "Other" bed

35) What's in your pocket? I don't have pockets on these basketball shorts

36) Last thing that made you laugh?

Two gay guys at Firestone selling stolen women's shoes out of the truck of a Ford Explorer

37) Best bed sheets growing up?

Super Mario Brothers or Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles

38) What is your favorite candle scent? Breeze or Beachy Scents (color blue)

39) Do you love where you live?

Yes and No. I'm thankful I own my home, tired of my subdivision

40) How many TVs do you have in your house? 3

41) Who is your loudest friend? Tracey

42) How many dogs do you have? 1

44) What is to your left? A wall

45) What is your favorite movie?

Steel Magnolias and Boyz in the Hood (I know)

46) What is your favorite tv show?

Chopped, Next FoodNetwork Star and TopShelf

47) What sport do you prefer to watch on tv? Track and Field, Football

48) Where is the next place you want to travel to? Brazil

49) What were you doing at midnight? Watching TV or getting ready go out

50) First thought after you woke up this morning?

Thank You Lord For Allowing Me To See Another Day

PHOTO OF THE WEEK...


HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!

THE BLACK FIRST FATHER AND DAUGHTERS

Return of the Windmill....Funny Ass Shit...

June 18, 2009