WHAT SHE SAID....THANKS KS....

I'm not secretive, I just choose NOT 2 share my business w/any & everybody. Those who need 2 know, know & those that don't, don't. If u fall in the latter group, suck it up, deal w/it & keep it moving. If u have a problem w/it, I don't know what 2 tell u. #thatisall

WHO RAN IT...ORIGINAL OR REMAKE....I LOVE THE EAGLES....

VS.

WHAT SHE SAID...MIMI FAUST FROM LAHHATL....

All you muthaf**king bitches who talking s**t about me and my situation get the f**k out of here. You act like I’m the only bitch that’s been cheated on. All you muthaf**king bitches been cheating on! Alll y’all!

Like I’m the only bitch that been cheated on!? Y’all muthaf**kers. Please! OK!?. My s**t is just on TV and I was real about my shit I ain’t f**king lie, I told the gotdamn truth, so f**k y’all and your f**king opinions about me and muthaf**king life!

I THINK SHE IS MAD!!!! BUT WAY TOO OLD TO SOUND SO IGNORANT....JUST SAYING

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20 Awkward Moments for Black People at Work....

1. When your coworker asks if you’re going to answer your phone, and since you don’t know the number you ignore it. (Secretly, you know that it’s Verizon Wireless or Sallie Mae calling from that unknown number.)

2. When they ask you if you’ll play on the company basketball team, but never on the golf team.

3. When someone asks if you want chicken for lunch, and you really do want chicken for lunch.

4. When you’re asked to speak on an issue or topic for your entire race in the morning status meeting.

5. When you forget to silence your ringer, your phone goes off in that same meeting, and you realize that you’ve had Jeezy’s “Supafreak” as a ringtone for way too long.

6. When a family member calls you and asks you for money.

7. When your coworkers think that a good time to you is being in an establishment where they sell alcohol with all white people and you’re the only Black person.

8. When your coworkers think you’re attending the company retreat in the middle of the woods with all white people and you’re the only Black person.

9. When they assume you’re the atlas of the bad neighborhoods in the city. “Hey my friend is having a party at E. 99th street, is that the ghetto?”

10. When you’re at happy hour and the drinks cost, “on the house.99” and you’re discreetly trying to order Henny,

11. When you get away with not brushing your hair or getting that haircut you’ve been needing for about a week and no one notices.

12. When your coworker references a standup by a popular Black comedian like Dave Chappelle or Chris Rock.

13. When you dance at the company holiday party and everyone stares at you in amazement.

14. When your child’s teacher calls you at work about your child’s behavior and you have to start the “let me speak with him” rant.

15. When your boss has “the talk” with you about being late and you don’t get what the big deal is.

16. When your coworkers catch you smoking a Black & Mild by the loading dock during your break.

17. When you say “pause” instead of “that’s what she said” and the only person who laughs is the other Black person in the office.

18. When you realize that you still have no idea what Nalgene means.

19. When they ask you “why didn’t you just catch a cab?” but they don’t understand you tried that.

20. When you overhear your coworkers talking about the upcoming election and how Romney is going to win, and Obama has to go.

CHANGING THE STEREOTYPE OF THE BLACK MAN....THANK YOU PRESIDENT OBAMA....

HILARIOUS BUT TRUE.....

CLASS THROWBACK...REMEMBER WHEN.....

SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT...BITCH BAD...

PRETTY ACCURATE IN ALL FACETS OF LIFE....

"There was only one way: WIN and make them deal with us. WIN and they have to give you a seat at the table, even if they don't want you there"

FROM ASHY TO CLASSY...I AGREE....

I understand what happened to Evelyn Lozado was wrong but I emplore you all to not embrace this women as a spokesperson for domestic violence!

WHAT SHE SAID....SANDRAROSE.COM ON DEREK J.....FUNNY SHIT....

 I still can’t figure out how reality TV star and salon owner Derek J walks in pumps without breaking the heels down.

FREEDOM.....

SHOUT OUT TO SOMMORE.....

Shout out to the people that are broke until Friday but , look so good that nobody will ever know it!

TOP RECRUIT SENTENCED TO THREE YEARS IN PRISON...YOU WILL LEARN YOUR LESSONS ONE WAY OR THE OTHER....

Instead of sifting through scholarship offers, selecting a school and launching his college basketball career as he originally planned, an Ohio high school standout will have to put his dreams on hold.

Tony Farmer, an 18-year-old senior at Garfield Heights High School, received a three-year prison sentence on Tuesday as a result of pleading guilty to kidnapping, felonious assault and other crimes.

The 6-foot-7 forward had been hoping to receive probation after teachers, coaches and family members testified on his behalf. When he learned he'd be going to prison as the judge read his sentence, he crumpled into the arms of a sheriff's deputy and collapsed to the ground in anguish.

In an odd twist, among those in the gallery sobbing in reaction to the judge's decision was the victim herself, Farmer's ex-girlfriend Andrea Lane. Even though the two remain separated since Farmer attacked Lane last April after she didn't want to reconcile their relationship, Lane had previously asked Judge Pamela Barker not to put Farmer in prison.

"I know he was a good person," she said, according to the Cleveland Plain Dealer. "I hope he still is."

The entire courtroom scene is depressing and hard to watch because Farmer had such a bright future prior to this incident. Before video cameras caught his altercation with Lane on tape last April in the lobby and parking lot of her apartment complex, Farmer was a consensus top 100 prospect who had drawn interest from the likes of Ohio State, Xavier, Dayton and Michigan State.

What Farmer did was unequivocally wrong and the punishment he received from Barker is appropriate. But unless Barker reduces Farmer's sentence when she reviews it in 180 days, his hopes of playing major college basketball are likely now over.

http://sports.yahoo.com/blogs/ncaab-the-dagger/top-recruit-collapses-court-receiving-three-prison-sentence-141153269--ncaab.html

THAT HOT NEW SHIT.....MS CAREY IS BACK IN GOLD....SHE LOOKS DAMN GOOD....

HOW MUCH DO YOU KNOW ABOUT ATL...REPOST...

How much do you know about ATL?

I saw this on another blog and decided to change it around for the A...

How well do you really love Atlanta?

Question 1
If someone said they lived near the "Big Chicken", that means they live in what area?

(1) College Park
(2) Decatur
(3) Marietta
(4) The Vinings

Question 2
Which downtown Atlanta landmark is a commonly used when providing directions?

(1) Red Lobster
(2) The Varsity
(3) Piedmont Mall
(4) The Atrium

Question 3
What do true Atlantians call their grandmothers?

(1) By her first name
(2) Ma'dear
(3) Grandmother
(4) Big Mama 

Question 4
How do you pronounce the name shorty in Atlanta?
(1) shor-tee
(2) sha-ah-tee
(3) shaw-teee-y
(4) shor-te

Question 5
Which shoes will never go out of style in Atlanta?

(1) Timberlands 
(2) FILA
(3) Reebok Classics
(4) NIKE

Question 6
Choose the most appropriate ending for the following sentence. "People from South Georgia are __________. "

(1) too country
(2) great dressers
(3) my family members
(4) not good cooks

Question 7
You are from out-of-town if you refer to Atlanta as what?

(1) The A
(2) HOTLANTA
(3) Atlanta
(4) The Dirty South 

Question 8
How do you pronounce "Sugar"?

(1) sug
(2) sug-a
(3) sug-ar
(4) shu-ga

Question 9
What do you get to drink at any and every restaurant in Atlanta?

(1) Coca-Coloa
(2) Sweet Tea
(3) Lemonade
(4) Pepsi

Question 10
Name the artist anyone from the Atlanta area would enjoy.

(1) Gladys Knight
(2) Ray Charles
(3) James Brown
(4) All of the above 

Question 11
Sunday dinner in the South has to include?

(1) Corn bread
(2) Fried chicken
(3) Sweet Tea
(4) Some type of potato

Question 12
What was every light or red skinned girls "play" name growing up in Atlanta?

(1) Dolly
(2) Pumpkin
(3) Peaches
(4) Red

Question 13
What area did you previously have to be out of before it started to get dark after having a picnic with your family?

(1) College Park
(2) Stone Mountain Park
(3) Turner Field
(4) Mableton

CLASSIC MISS JIA...SOME THINGS HAVE TO BE POSTED MORE THAN ONCE....

THE WAY THEY WERE...BLACK LOVE....

THOSE BABIES WOULD HAVE BEEN SO PRETTY.....

THAT WAS THEN, THIS IS NOW....SPARKLE 2012....

WHAT SHE SAID.....K. MICHELLE RESPONDS TO RASHEEDA OF LAHHATL....

It would b fun2offer Georgia Prune a verbal lashing,but truth is she needs 2fight with me 2even come back next season.

So Ill pass 15minutes the whole season and all of them put us 2sleep. Ur hottest scenes were becuz I was in them. 

 That grandmother is mad chile.

PURE PERFECTION...GET'S NO BETTER....

CLASSIC THROWBACK.....CLASSIC TUPAC....

SCENES OF WHITNEY HOUSTON IN SPARKLE WILL BRING YOU TO TEARS.....

Screenings of Sparkle is evoking emotional responses from audience members who fight to hold back tears during Whitney’s scenes.

From Page Six:

Whitney Houston’s voice drew tears from the audience at the Tribeca Grand during a screening of “Sparkle,” Houston’s last on-screen performance. When the late singer appeared in a church scene singing a solo of gospel hymn “His Eye Is on the Sparrow,” sniffles could be heard in the audience, which included the movie’s stars, Jordin Sparks, Derek Luke, Tika Sumpter, Omari Hardwick, Mike Epps and Carmen Ejogo. After wiping away tears, the crowd burst into applause at the end of Houston’s scene.

WHEN IT RAINS, IT POURS....MORE BAD NEWS FOR CHAD JOHNSON.....

The Zico brand is about supporting naturally powered athletes, We partnered with Chad Johnson because of our great respect for what he has achieved on the playing field. However, in light of recent events involving Mr. Johnson, we have decided to terminate our relationship. The values we espouse, through our employees, our customers and our brand, are central to our mission. We have taken this proactive step to demonstrate just how important those values are.

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NOTE TO USHER....

Dear Usher: Mothers' always knows what's best.

Thanks MR...

THE USA'S NEWEST GOLDEN GIRLS.....THEY WAS RUNNNINNNNIINNGGGG

WHAT SHE DID...FILED FOR DIVORCE ALREADY...EVELYN LOZADA

Earlier today, Evelyn Lozada released her first statement in regards to the recent domestic altercation with husband, Chad Johnson, and now she’s taken it one step further. After just six weeks of marriage, The Basketball Wives star has officially filed for divorce. 

 Via TMZ: Evelyn Lozada filed legal docs moments ago in Florida, claiming her marriage is “irretrievably broken.” 

 The trigger for the divorce was the domestic violence incident over the weekend, in which Chad Johnson was arrested after allegedly head-butting her during an argument. Evelyn claimed she found a receipt for a box of condoms in his car. 

 According to the divorce docs, the couple had a prenup — but that won’t be a big deal since the marriage was shorter than Kim Kardashian’s. 

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WHAT HE SAID...CHAD JOHNSON ON HIS ACTIONS TOWARDS EVELYN

I would like to apologize to everyone for the recent events that have occurred. I would like to wish Evelyn well and will never say anything bad about her because I truly love her to death. I will continue to be positive and train hard for another opportunity in the NFL. To all the fans and supporters I have disappointed, you have my sincerest apologies. I will stay positive and get through this tough period in my life. 

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HE DIDN'T WIN THE GOLD BUT HE WON MY HEART....I LOVE TYSON GAY.....

IS IT ALMOST TIME FOR FOOTBALL SEASON???

SHOULD YOU CONFESS INDISCRETIONS?

One of our MIA blog readers would like a little advice about what he should do. He and his girlfriend recently had “the talk” and decided to go exclusive. Soon after the talk, he goes on a weekend trip with his boys and has a little inappropriate contact with random girl at bar.

He knows that since they had “the talk” he should own up to his indiscretion. The problem is, his girlfriend broke up with the last guy for a similar offense. Although he believes what he did was “not as bad” the fact that he didn’t actually sleep with someone else means he should keep it to himself.

If you are in an exclusive relationship, would you confess if you did a little dirt on the side? Would it matter the degree of the offense?

If someone you were seeing did something inappropriate with someone else, would you want them to tell you?

What would do if you your new boyfriend/girlfriend had an encounter with someone else, right after you decided to be exclusive?

P.S. For the record, I believe that if you hook up with someone else on vacation/out of the country or state..it’s still cheating. Seriously, don’t ever ask for a pass on something like that.

By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog

RACHETNESS AT IT'S BEST...I LOVE THEM STRIPPERS....

MORE REASON BLACK MEN NEED TO STAND UP AND BE FATHERS....TEEN BEATS BROTHER FOR PLAYING X-BOX....

LIFE LESSON #391....

WHAT SHE SAID...GOLDEN GIRL GABBY ON HER HAIR...AND THE COMMENTS ABOUT IT

I don’t know where this is coming from. What’s wrong with my hair? I’m like, I just made history and people are focused on my hair?’ It can be bald or short, it doesn’t matter about (my) hair.

Nothing is going to change. I’m going to wear my hair like this during beam and bar finals. You might as well just stop talking about it.

I don’t think people should be worried about that. We’re all champions and we’re all winners. I just say that it’s kind of, a stupid and crazy thought to think about my hair.

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GOLD WINNING PERFORMANCE....WELL DESERVED!!!!

PRAISE FOR THE WORLDS NEWEST GOLDEN GIRL....WELL DONE.....

Beyonce: "A huge congratulations to 16-year-old Olympic Gold Medalist Gabby Douglas - Wow - what a thrill to watch you take this Gold!  I can tell you've been working hard for so long - enjoy this moment, it's yours. Thank you for inspiring all of us!"

Oprah: "OMG I'm so THRILLED for Gabby. Flowing happy tears!! #TeamUSA"

Nicki Minaj: *kisses to Gabby* what an amazing little firecracker. #USA #Olympics."

Lil Wayne: "Glad i lived to see what Gabby Douglas did in the Olympics. Icon."

Ciara: "Not only am I happy 4 U. I'm happy for your family 2! The sacrifices payed off! Keep inspiring Young Girls and Women like Me."

Octavia Spencer: "HUGE HUGE MOMENT!!! Own it! bringing home THE GOLD!"

Condoleeza Rice: "Proud of their team gold and thrilled for Gabby Douglas and her momentous accomplishment as the first African-American to win the individual all-around gymnastics title."

Magic Johnson: Congrats to @gabrielledoug on winning gold in women's all around! You are an inspiration to young girls everywhere, esp African Americans./Would love to host @gabrielledoug & her family at a @Dodgers game when she is back. #TeamUSA

Roland Martin: Right now, Gabby @gabrielledoug is receiving her gold medal. That smile is lighting up the arena! #teamUSA

Gabrielle Union: GOLDEN GIRL!!! I'm in awe :)

Sheila E.: DID U KNOW....If you rearrange GABBY'S last name DOUGLAS it reads USA Gold....#gabby

Jackée Harry: Wow! So Gabby Douglas ( @gabrielledoug )'s Last Name Unscrambled Is 'USA GOLD'! She Was #DestinedToWin! Congrats! #TeamUSA!

Sheryl Underwood: Congratulations to Gabby Douglas (@gabrielledoug)! Keep on smiling & inspiring. Olympic gold!

Whoopi Goldberg: Gabby Douglas made Olympic history that little girl blew the World away, TOTAL talent. Proud Proud Proud

Lisa Leslie: Well deserved! #GoldModel

Cheryl "Salt" James: Gabby Douglas!!! Yes... Take heed young ladies, U can win!!

Kerry Washington: WOW! WOW! WOW!

Raven-Symone`: Dreams do come true!! Congrats "all around"

Fellow Virginian Mike Vick: Salute to Gabrielle Douglas #757

Timbaland: yessir bigups to @gabrielledoug u did ur thang

Estelle: I JUST rewatched Gabby douglass. Yo. Goosebumps. Every single turn was sharp. Clean. Perfect. Omg!!!  triple turns in the air?just..

Rick Ross: Congrats Gabby Douglas. Olympic #goldmedalist

Mary J Blige: Congratulations to @gabrielledoug On her 2 Olympic Gold Medals!!! I'm so inspired!!!

Dawn Richard: So happy for @gabrielledoug and her family. God bless them all. Breaking barriers and boundaries with poise and class. I love it!

Pharrell: Va Bch!! @gabrielledoug knew what she wanted at a young age and did it. She saw it her mind and nothing could distract her. She is OTHER. / You are the future, @gabrielledoug Such a shining example of focus, persistence, and execution. And a special thx to your rock of a family.

Monica: Congratulations Gabby Douglas on your Olympic Achievements. Gymnastics Team USA u made us all proud❤

President Obama via hand delivered message from the White House  in addition to a call from Air Force One: "You just tore it up.  I know how hard you worked to get there.  Keep at it. Stay cool."

Dominique Dawes: In a tearful video, Dominique said she is thrilled to change her website from being the ONLY to being the FIRST...

INSTEAD OF FOCUSING ON HER WINNING GOLD, PEOPLE CHOOSE TO FOCUS ON HER HAIR.....THERE ARE STILL HATERS IN 2012....

Gabby Douglas is proudly representing her country in the Olympics. She's poised under pressure, performing gravity-defying athletic feats in front of an international audience. She's 16 and the second female African American U.S. gymnast to ever make the team. But instead of lauding her achievements, some people are slamming her for... not getting her hair done. 

Many African American women choose not to work out in order to protect their hairstyle, Randolph points out. "The last time I checked when you play a sport, you sweat. I know I do. And when a Black woman who has chosen to wear her hair straight begins to sweat, her hair will (not might) begin to revert back to its natural coily, curly, or kinky state," she writes. "Some of us are sitting up right now with our hair done but suffering from high blood pressure, borderline diabetes, obesity, and/or a lack of energy. Oh, but the hair is on point."

Hair has always held a special significance in the African American community. Emmy Award-winning comedian Chris Rock was so struck by his daughter's obsession with her friend's hair that he made a documentary about it, "Good Hair," in which he goes on a quest to better understand why hair is so important to so many black women.

"There's always this sort of pressure within the black community like, if you have good hair, you're prettier or better than the brown-skinned girl that wears the Afro or the dreads or the natural hairstyle," actress Nia Long told him when he interviewed her for his film.

"They say it's for the men, but it's really for the women. Because guys don't care" about a woman's hair, he points out. His theory is born out in the stream of tweets about Douglas' hair -- the most critical comments are by women. (Thankfully, some of the most supportive ones since have been by African American women as well.)

Instead of worrying about whether her hair is perfect, Douglas is focused on making history and winning Olympic gold. She is representing all Americans, not just one single group. She's achieved more by age 16 than most of us do in a lifetime. Shouldn't we be cheering her on instead of tearing her down? 

DO WE NEED SEXUAL LABLES?

Apparently, some young hip hop artist related to Billy Ocean (I think?), decided to reveal to the world his past relationship with another man. Mind you, he had an upcoming album that was about to be released, so who knows if this was a brilliant PR move or not. 


At any rate, this caused all sorts of buzz and talk about homophobia in hip hop. I also watched people talk about what it means to be straight, gay, bi-sexual or any other sexual labels people have. 


I started to wonder why it is important to have these “sexual identities” and does it really matter in the end? Are we attracted to people or to gender? The same week that Frank Ocean talked about his relationship with another man, Anderson Cooper decided it was time to publicly acknowledge that he was homosexual. 


I don’t know if it was a shock to many and I even wonder why he felt compelled to talk about it at all. Does it change his image in the public eye as a journalist/talk-show host? 


Why do you believe we need sexual labels? What would you do if the person you were dating told you they have had same-sex relationships in the past?

CERTIFIED GOLD BABY...THIS IS WHAT A WINNER LOOKS LIKE

WHAT HE SAID...SLIM THUG ON ABORTIONS....

“I think abortion is necessary on some occasions. People be against it, but people don’t deal with the real life situations some people deal with. I don’t think it’s right, I don’t think it’s good to have a baby and not be with the father. That’s part of the biggest problem. My mother, she took care of me, but she was working 7 days-a-week, 12 hours-a-day. That was a struggle, I seen how much she struggled and it was so hard coming up. I don’t even know who my daddy is. I don’t like that. I think a kid deserves both his parents. That’s why I think if you ain’t gonna be with somebody, you don’t need to have a kid with him. 


 Even though I got 3 baby mamas…. it’s working out. But it ain’t right. I ain’t saying wait 3 or 4 months. If it’s immediate, it’s like birth control to me. 


 Read more: Slim Thug Is Pro-Abortion: ‘If It’s Immediate, It’s Like Birth Control To Me’ | Necole Bitchie.com