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January 29, 2014
BE CAREFUL WHO YOU DATE....
Be careful who you start dating.
A lot of people ain't looking for LOVE, they're looking for HELP.
A lot of people ain't looking for LOVE, they're looking for HELP.
WHAT SHE SAID.....THANKS TF....
Heard Georgia & Alabama declared a state of emergency.
Wouldn't have been a state of emergency if you have cleaned the roads in time.
Can't wait til after it starts snowing.
Take a lesson from up north governments.
Wouldn't have been a state of emergency if you have cleaned the roads in time.
Can't wait til after it starts snowing.
Take a lesson from up north governments.
January 28, 2014
NO MORE TOXIC FRIENDSHIPS....
Stop tolerating what is toxic. Successful people do not hang on to what is unhealthy, unproductive, or unbeneficial for long.
January 27, 2014
GET INTO THE LYRICS....
Listen,
He got older, but never grew,
For his life he can't tell the truth.
How to love he ain't got a clue,
Playing games like he'll never lose you.
Try to talk to him, can't get through,
Every day he's a different dude.
These are the signs of a grown ass boy,
Better run for the hills, I'm just trying to keep it real.
You can't raise a man, he's already grown, what you gonna do? You wonder why he acts like a boy.
If he wasn't raised right before you Girl,
you ain't never gonna change nobody,
if he don't wanna, you can't make nobody.
'Cause you can't raise a man, no, no.
Coming home any time at night, expecting you to let it ride How many tears are you gonna cry?
Playing games like he'll never lose you
You know that the love is changed,
how many times he called you out your name?
These are the signs of a grown ass boy,
Better run for the hills, I'm just keeping it real.
You can't raise a man, he's already grown, what you gonna do? You wonder why he acts like a boy.
If he wasn't raised right before you Girl,
you ain't never gonna change nobody,
if he don't wanna, you can't make nobody.
You can't raise a man, no, no.
Gonna take more than a miracle to change him, just let him go. Tell me when will you decide to do better with your life.
If his momma couldn't do it what makes you think
You can train a boy to be a man, it's too late.
Better off letting him go, no matter how hard you try you can't raise.
You can't raise a man, he's already grown, what you gonna do? You wonder why he acts like a boy.
If he wasn't raised right before you Girl,
you ain't never gonna change nobody,
if he don't wanna, you can't make nobody.
'Cause you can't raise a man, no, no.
For his life he can't tell the truth.
How to love he ain't got a clue,
Playing games like he'll never lose you.
Try to talk to him, can't get through,
Every day he's a different dude.
These are the signs of a grown ass boy,
Better run for the hills, I'm just trying to keep it real.
You can't raise a man, he's already grown, what you gonna do? You wonder why he acts like a boy.
If he wasn't raised right before you Girl,
you ain't never gonna change nobody,
if he don't wanna, you can't make nobody.
'Cause you can't raise a man, no, no.
Coming home any time at night, expecting you to let it ride How many tears are you gonna cry?
Playing games like he'll never lose you
You know that the love is changed,
how many times he called you out your name?
These are the signs of a grown ass boy,
Better run for the hills, I'm just keeping it real.
You can't raise a man, he's already grown, what you gonna do? You wonder why he acts like a boy.
If he wasn't raised right before you Girl,
you ain't never gonna change nobody,
if he don't wanna, you can't make nobody.
You can't raise a man, no, no.
Gonna take more than a miracle to change him, just let him go. Tell me when will you decide to do better with your life.
If his momma couldn't do it what makes you think
You can train a boy to be a man, it's too late.
Better off letting him go, no matter how hard you try you can't raise.
You can't raise a man, he's already grown, what you gonna do? You wonder why he acts like a boy.
If he wasn't raised right before you Girl,
you ain't never gonna change nobody,
if he don't wanna, you can't make nobody.
'Cause you can't raise a man, no, no.
January 26, 2014
January 24, 2014
WHAT HE SAID...SEAHAWK RICHARD SHERMAN.....
"The only reason it bothers me is because it seems like it's the accepted way of calling somebody the N-word nowadays. Because they know."
January 22, 2014
January 21, 2014
WORD OF THE DAY...ADDICTION....
Addiction is the continued repetition of a behavior despite adverse consequences,or a neurological impairment leading to such behaviors.
Addictions can include, but are not limited to, drug abuse, exercise addiction, food addiction, sexual addiction, computer addiction and gambling.
Classic hallmarks of addiction include impaired control over substances or behavior, preoccupation with substance or behavior, continued use despite consequences, and denial.
Habits and patterns associated with addiction are typically characterized by immediate gratification (short-term reward), coupled with delayed deleterious effects (long-term costs).
Addictions can include, but are not limited to, drug abuse, exercise addiction, food addiction, sexual addiction, computer addiction and gambling.
Classic hallmarks of addiction include impaired control over substances or behavior, preoccupation with substance or behavior, continued use despite consequences, and denial.
Habits and patterns associated with addiction are typically characterized by immediate gratification (short-term reward), coupled with delayed deleterious effects (long-term costs).
WHAT HE SAID...NO TRUER WORDS EVER SAID...
“The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.”
January 17, 2014
January 15, 2014
INSPIRATIONAL THOUGHT OF THE DAY....NO...OF THE WEEK....
When you think your job or life is hard, there's someone else who is making "harder" happen...with less.
So, what's your excuse?
So, what's your excuse?
WORDS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD LIVE BY....
The woman who catches a mans eye earns a purse, the one who catches his heart earns his world!
WHAT SHE SAID...MARGARET AVERY, BEING MARY JANE.....
Today’s vultures smell blood before you even say I do.
They can never cultivate a man. It’s always easier for them to take someone else’s.
Read more: http://straightfromthea.com/2014/01/15/recap-can-you-marry-a-married-man-being-mary-jane-season-1-episode-3-watch-full-episode-video/#ixzz2qTunolhk
Read more: http://straightfromthea.com/2014/01/15/recap-can-you-marry-a-married-man-being-mary-jane-season-1-episode-3-watch-full-episode-video/#ixzz2qTunolhk
January 13, 2014
January 12, 2014
WORDS TO LIVE BY....
The worst thing in the world isn't being alone, it's being in a relationship and STILL being alone. ~Lance Watson
January 8, 2014
3 TYPES OF FRIENDS.....BREAKDOWN
1. CONFIDANTS – You have very few of them – these are people who welcome you unconditionally. They are into you whether you are up or down, right or wrong, they are in it for the long haul. You can share anything with them. Having a good confidant is one of the keys that unlock the Kingdom.
These are people who you can share your deepest and darkest inner thoughts with, who won’t judge you but will feed you instead of draining you. Have you ever had relationships where the person was emotionally immature and consistently draining you? It’s okay to help others but you must have someone who feeds you so you can feed someone else.
They will confront you; they’ll get in your business and get in your face and tell you when you are wrong BUT will also come back and be by your side no matter what.
They will never leave.
2. CONSTITUENTS – They are not into you but are into what you are FOR. They are for what you are for. As long as you are for what they are for they will be with you but never think they are for you.
If they meet someone else that will meet their agenda they will hook up with them and leave you. Don’t mistake a constituent for a confidant.
By the time you fall in love or are connected with them in a relationship, they will hook up with someone else and break your heart, leaving you wondering, “I thought our relationship was deeper than that.”
3. COMRADES – These are not for you nor are they for what you are for. They are just against what you are against. They are strange bedfellows. They are the enemy of your enemy who will team up with you to help you fight a greater enemy. They will only be with you until the victory is accomplished. They are like scaffolding that is there until the building is built but is later removed because the building is built.
Don’t be upset when they leave. They were not supposed to be there anyway. Don’t tell your dream to your constituents they will try to fulfill the dream without you.
Don’t tell your dream to your comrades because they will not support you because they are not for you in the first place.
These are people who you can share your deepest and darkest inner thoughts with, who won’t judge you but will feed you instead of draining you. Have you ever had relationships where the person was emotionally immature and consistently draining you? It’s okay to help others but you must have someone who feeds you so you can feed someone else.
They will confront you; they’ll get in your business and get in your face and tell you when you are wrong BUT will also come back and be by your side no matter what.
They will never leave.
2. CONSTITUENTS – They are not into you but are into what you are FOR. They are for what you are for. As long as you are for what they are for they will be with you but never think they are for you.
If they meet someone else that will meet their agenda they will hook up with them and leave you. Don’t mistake a constituent for a confidant.
By the time you fall in love or are connected with them in a relationship, they will hook up with someone else and break your heart, leaving you wondering, “I thought our relationship was deeper than that.”
3. COMRADES – These are not for you nor are they for what you are for. They are just against what you are against. They are strange bedfellows. They are the enemy of your enemy who will team up with you to help you fight a greater enemy. They will only be with you until the victory is accomplished. They are like scaffolding that is there until the building is built but is later removed because the building is built.
Don’t be upset when they leave. They were not supposed to be there anyway. Don’t tell your dream to your constituents they will try to fulfill the dream without you.
Don’t tell your dream to your comrades because they will not support you because they are not for you in the first place.
January 7, 2014
REMEMBER THOSE LYRICS.....
I want muscles
All, all over his body
(Make him strong enough)
(From his head down to his toes)
I want muscles
All, all over his body
(Make him strong enough)
(From his head down to his toes)
January 6, 2014
WHAT SHE SAID....THE NEW, CURRENT REINING QUEEN OF RACHET....MISS K. MICHELLE....
What a year I had. The overexposed Coochie pic, the constant media bashing, the very obvious shade throwing towards me, winning best new artist at the soul Train awards, #1 R&B album, to V.S.O.P hitting #4 on the charts! SHEESH I thought I couldn’t get any stronger but this year made me a beast! It was me against the world and I made it. I didn’t always handle things right, but I handled them MY WAY. Always honest and straight 2the point. I thank my Rebels 4 being my backbone, y’all fight hard 4me EVERYDAY. I love you.
People can say what they want about me, and never give me the accolades I deserve, but they can never take away my gift. It’s even scary to me my ability to connect with so many strong people and broken hearts. I shook this industry up,They can stay mad, cuz to them I’m not supposed to be here right now. But I kept my middle fingers held high and focused on HEARTS not the CHARTS Atlantic Records and MBK have smothered me with love. Love I didn’t even have for myself. Who would’ve thought this little country girl that everybody counted out would make it this far. I’m not class favorite, never wanted to be, but I am the REALEST. You don’t have to like me, But YOU WILL RESPECT MY GIFT. My music I like this woman I have become. My momma prayed for me, and my God saved me. He is worth of all my praise!
Read More: Miss Jia | Black Celebrity Gossip | Latest Entertainment News http://www.missjia.com/#ixzz2pfBWwZL6
People can say what they want about me, and never give me the accolades I deserve, but they can never take away my gift. It’s even scary to me my ability to connect with so many strong people and broken hearts. I shook this industry up,They can stay mad, cuz to them I’m not supposed to be here right now. But I kept my middle fingers held high and focused on HEARTS not the CHARTS Atlantic Records and MBK have smothered me with love. Love I didn’t even have for myself. Who would’ve thought this little country girl that everybody counted out would make it this far. I’m not class favorite, never wanted to be, but I am the REALEST. You don’t have to like me, But YOU WILL RESPECT MY GIFT. My music I like this woman I have become. My momma prayed for me, and my God saved me. He is worth of all my praise!
Read More: Miss Jia | Black Celebrity Gossip | Latest Entertainment News http://www.missjia.com/#ixzz2pfBWwZL6
January 5, 2014
LEARN HOW TO APPRECIATE COMPLETE SILENCE...
In silence, we have an opportunity to reflect, listen, and gain new insights about ourselves. In silence, we can think, feel, and most important of all, breathe. When you seek guidance, understanding, clarity, or peace of mind, the first step is to master the art of silence and to rethink the value of solitude.
January 4, 2014
WHAT HE SAID....
"Prioritizing problems. There's a lot of problems in the hood, and it's tough to prioritize them."
January 2, 2014
WORDS OF WISDOM TO LIVE BY....
Don't block the EXIT. If someone wants to leave, RELEASE them and hold on to your PEACE.
January 1, 2014
WHAT SHE SAID....GREAT ADVICE FOR SINGLE MEN.....
Don't go looking for a good WOMAN until you yourself have become a good MAN. You must meet the requirements of your REQUIREMENTS.
BE BETTER IN 2014....
I don't believe in resolutions....
People often break them....
I do believe in progression and the desire to do better....
For 2014, I want to be...
A better son to my parents.
A better brother to my siblings.
A better employee to my employer.
A better member of my community.
A better active listener and advice given.
A better giver and tither.
A better friend to my true friends.
A better Mentor and Volunteer.
A better Man in all things that I do.
It's 2014....Let us all be Better Than We Were in 2013.
People often break them....
I do believe in progression and the desire to do better....
For 2014, I want to be...
A better son to my parents.
A better brother to my siblings.
A better employee to my employer.
A better member of my community.
A better active listener and advice given.
A better giver and tither.
A better friend to my true friends.
A better Mentor and Volunteer.
A better Man in all things that I do.
It's 2014....Let us all be Better Than We Were in 2013.
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