It's all fun and games til someone gets caught cheating. No one likes to be blind sided so here are some good ways to tell if your mate may be stepping out on your relationship.
Read up, have fun and try not to get caught slippin.
He might be cheating if....he sleeps with his cell phone under his pillow.
He might be cheating if...you find feminine hygiene products in his house.
He might be cheating if...he keeps a lock on his phone.
He might be cheating if...he visits his "boys" 7 days a week and more than 4 hours at a time.
He might be cheating if...he downloaded the Tiger Text iphone app.
He might be cheating if...he has a lot of play sisters.
He might be cheating if...you have to constantly keep readjusting the passenger seat in his car.
He might be cheating if...his "mother" calls him at 2am.
He might be cheating if...you ask him and he says No.
He might be cheating if...he gives you reasons why cheating "ain't even that serious".
He might be cheating if...his girlfriend calls the house.
He might be cheating if...his lips are moving.
He might be cheating if...he takes a ridiculous number of trips out of town.
He might be cheating if...he's putting 20 miles more per week on the car.
He might be cheating if...he's into hobbies he wasn't into before.
He might be cheating if...he has to leave the room to talk on the phone.
Read more: http://www.balleralert.com/profiles/blogs/hes-probably-cheating-on-you#ixzz1wUzPyrxT
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May 31, 2012
WHY WORRY....THURSDAY INSPIRATION...
Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. -1 Peter 5:7
Worry solves no problem. Rather, worry adds to and complicates the existing problems and creates new ones. It builds a wall between us and God as we lose our faith in Him. He has a fixed schedule for each and every one of us. Our worries and fears should drive us closer and not an inch further from God. How wonderful it is that God personally cares about those things that worry us and prey upon our thoughts.
Today we will let go of the stomach-tensing, blood-pressure-raising thoughts, and ask God to help it escape our minds as we move forward in the days ahead.
Worry solves no problem. Rather, worry adds to and complicates the existing problems and creates new ones. It builds a wall between us and God as we lose our faith in Him. He has a fixed schedule for each and every one of us. Our worries and fears should drive us closer and not an inch further from God. How wonderful it is that God personally cares about those things that worry us and prey upon our thoughts.
Today we will let go of the stomach-tensing, blood-pressure-raising thoughts, and ask God to help it escape our minds as we move forward in the days ahead.
May 30, 2012
RICHNESS OF LOVE....
The richness of love is far more expensive than the cost of any material possession. ♥ ♥ ♥
May 24, 2012
I AIN'T SAYING SHE A GOLD DIGGER, BUT SHE AINT MESSING WITH NO BROKE NI%$AS.....
Eddie Murphy was spotted grabbing drinks and holding hands with 106th & Park’s, Rocsi Diaz.
Several months ago, Rocsi was spotted hanging out with Raphae Saadiq on Miami beach. Before that, she and LisaRaye were at odds over Michael Misick (LisaRaye’s ex-husband).
Do I sense a pattern here? Go ‘head and get you an older man, chile. Since acting is definitely not in her future (well, nothing beyond the straight to DVD stuff), she might as well date one.
Live vicariously & such. Read More: Miss Jia: She ain’t for everybody… « Miss Jia: She ain’t for everybody… http://missjia.com/#ixzz1vqJkNhV5
May 23, 2012
DATING OLDER AND YOUNGER..AGE DISPARITIES....
When you date much older or much younger people, you have probably had to navigate the age gap. Whenever it becomes painfully obvious that you two are from totally different generations, or have polar opposite outlooks on life. How do you hand the difference in age?
Do you ever wonder if dating someone who is much older or much younger is worth all the adjustments that you have to make?
A lot of it has to do with maturity and communication. You find a way to work out the differences by acknowledging them first. It’s not helpful to overlook the pink elephant in the room.
A friend of mine is dating someone a lot younger than he is. Still, he is somewhat surprised when she handles certain situations. I feel as if he should understand that it comes with the territory of dating younger. I encourage him to cut her some slack and remind him how he was clueless at her age too.
Do you ever wonder if dating someone who is much older or much younger is worth all the adjustments that you have to make?
They way I see it, every relationship will have it’s own unique set of challenges. If dealing with the difference in age is the toughest part of the relationship, then that’s not all that bad. Then again, I haven’t dated (many?) 20 year olds in a while either.
What age ranges do you think are most compatible? Do you think age matters at all?
How young would you date? How old?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
May 22, 2012
RELATIONSHIPS AND EXES.....
When a relationship ends, you usually don’t just stop caring about the person. There are lingering emotions and sometimes attraction. So does this mean forming a friendship is a bad idea or the best idea?
When you go from friends to lovers then back to friends again, how should the dynamic change?
A lot of us have a particular ex who we prefer to pretend does not exist anymore, but what about the former loves who you really want to stay connected to? Those great people who turned out not to be a great match for you but you want in your life. Is it naive to expect a friendship or can it be done with good expectations and communication?
How many of your exes are you still friends with and have kept communication?
By Wise Diva, Misadventures in Atlanta Dating Blog
May 21, 2012
I LOVE TERRICKA CROMARTIE...CRAZINESS AND ALL....
According to the NY Post, Terricka Cromartie, 31, is a manipulative, vindictive woman who lied about a suicide attempt because she thought Cromartie — a man with 10 children and 8 baby mamas — was cheating on her.
Obviously, Terricka is one of those delusional chicks who thinks she is unique, and has special powers to change a dog into a caring, thoughtful, responsible man. Women like Terricka are always unpredictable when they are forced to face the hard truth that they are not that special.
The Post reports that Terricka, while seven months pregnant with their second child, sent Cromartie, who was in Miami, text messages that read: “God forgive me, I don’t want to die. What have I done?” and “I cut my wrists. I took those pills.”
In a panic, Cromartie, 28, called the Randolph Township, NJ, police at 2:43 a.m. “There’s a problem at my house. She’s bleeding. She cut her wrists,” he told the 911 dispatcher. Police responded to the home, and when there was no answer at the door, they broke the door down only to find Terricka unharmed and in bed with her daughter and Cromartie’s daughter from a previous relationship.
According to the police report, “She stated that she had no intention of going through with the act,” says a police report on the May 6, 2011 incident. “She said she was exercising her First Amendment right to free speech and could say whatever she wanted.”
She also admitted sending threatening text messages to the woman she suspected Cromartie was cheating with.
In the texts, Terricka told the woman that she would contract a sexually transmitted disease from Cromartie if she slept with him. The police strongly suggested that Terricka accompany them to a psychiatric facility where she would be involuntarily committed for an evaluation. But she initially refused.
The report stated she became “belligerent, uncooperative, irrational and argumentative.” But she agreed to be admitted to a psych facility after the state took the two children into protective custody.
Cromartie and Terricka are expecting twins.
WILL SMITH SHOWS HIS GANSTA WHEN FRENCH PRESS TRIES TO KISS HIM IN HIS MOUTH....
How many times does Will Smith have to tell you he’s not gay?
Smith, who is married to actress Jada Pinkett-Smith, has repeatedly denied the persistent ghey rumors over the years. But his denials doesn’t keep the gheys from trying him.
Smith just about reached the limits of his endurance with the ghey rumor thing when a gutsy Russian reporter tried to kiss him in the mouth on the red carpet at the Russian premiere of Men in Black III. “Come on, man! What the hell is your problem!,” Will yelled before pimp slapping the guy. “He kissed me in my mouth!” Will explained while apologizing for his outburst. “He’s lucky I didn’t sucker punch him,” he said.
This reminds me of the time, years ago, when a young rapper (who I won’t name) reacted in a similar fashion to being kissed in the mouth by a former employee of music producer Dallas Austin (whom I won’t mention to save his wife any further embarrassment). Anyway, T.I. had to be physically restrained from busting the exec in the chops that day.
Unfortunately, the action wasn’t caught on film like Will’s kiss was. But people are still talking about it to this day.
May 18, 2012
WHAT SHE SAID....WITH TWO SNAPS AND A TWIST.....GO RAVEN.....
Raven Symone has been pretty mum when it comes to her social life over the years so when news hit earlier this week that she had ‘came out’, it was a bit surprising.
That’s until the story traced back to the National Enquirer and our reaction turned from surprise to **eye roll**. According to the tabloid, Raven and her alleged girlfriend AzMarie Livingston (a former America’s Next Top Model contestant) is shacking up together in an NYC condo where Raven is residing while playing the lead in Sister Act on Broadway.
“I’m living my PERSONAL life the way I’m happiest. I’m not one, in my 25 year career to disclose who I’m dating. and I shall not start now. My sexual orientation is mine, and the person I’m datings to know. I’m not one for a public display of my life. However that is my right as a HUMAN BEing whether straight or gay. To tell or not to tell. As long as I’m not harming anyone. I am a light being made from love. And my career is the only thing I would like to put on display, not my personal life. Kisses!”
As for her parents-
She’s at a point now where she doesn’t care what her family thinks, and she’s in love with AzMarie. She’s a lesbian and wants to live that way. She told her parents she loves them, but her home – especially her bedroom – is nobody’s business, and she was not going to back down, so they needed to accept it, period.
Read more: Raven Symone Addresses Lesbian Reports: ‘I’m living my personal life the way I’m happiest’ | Necole Bitchie.com
That’s until the story traced back to the National Enquirer and our reaction turned from surprise to **eye roll**. According to the tabloid, Raven and her alleged girlfriend AzMarie Livingston (a former America’s Next Top Model contestant) is shacking up together in an NYC condo where Raven is residing while playing the lead in Sister Act on Broadway.
As for her parents-
She’s at a point now where she doesn’t care what her family thinks, and she’s in love with AzMarie. She’s a lesbian and wants to live that way. She told her parents she loves them, but her home – especially her bedroom – is nobody’s business, and she was not going to back down, so they needed to accept it, period.
Read more: Raven Symone Addresses Lesbian Reports: ‘I’m living my personal life the way I’m happiest’ | Necole Bitchie.com
May 16, 2012
CAKE, CAKE, CAKE.....C. BREEZY DOING WHAT HE DOES BEST....
ONE OF AMERICA'S MOST ELIGIBLE BACHELORS....IS HE OR IS HE NOT.....GAY???
In 2012, a handsome man who is still single after the age of 40 is almost unheard of. Mr. Booker has been the subject of rampant ghey rumors for years now.
In a new interview by Obie Brook for EBONY magazine, Mayor Booker adds fuel to the rumors by balking at the mere mention of dating ladies.
EBONY: Forgive me, I have to ask this question because too many ladies out there would kill me if I didn’t: are you hoping to settle down and start a family in the near future?
CORY BOOKER: [Laughs] What “ladies”? Did my mother put you up to this? [Laughs] I just I think everybody wants to have that settled life and even God wants us to “have life and have it more abundantly.” Everybody wants to find their soul mate and I’m no different. That’s definitely what I want in the future.
Booker goes on to say he is looking for a “soul mate” to settle down with — not necessarily a female.
EBONY: Last year you mentioned being too busy to date. Have you found that soul mate yet or are you still looking?
CORY BOOKER: Still looking for that soul mate.
EBONY: And what are you looking for in a soul mate? “You know, when you’re young, you have these long lists, but when you get older it’s just like, are they breathing? [Laughs] But, I want somebody that has a deep reverence for God and compassion for other people at their core and doesn’t take themselves or me too seriously. Someone who is just a positive person.”
He also tells if he’s planning a run for president:
CB: “Well, they say that the way to make God laugh is to make plans for yourself. But if you asked me in 1996 if I’d be running for mayor of Newark, I wouldn’t have believed you, so you just never know. But am I planning a run for President? No. My goal and my hope is that I’m living on purpose; that’s more important than position.”
PERSONAL NOTE TO MAYOR COREY BOOKER-YOU ARE 100% MY TYPE, AGE, SIZE, EDUCATIONAL LEVEL, EYES AND SMILE- EVERYTHING...IF YOU ARE INTO EDUCATED GUYS AROUND THE AGE OF 30 WHO ARE INDEPENDENT....HIT ME UP!!!
I LOVE THIS GUY!
FROM-SANDRAROSE.COM
May 15, 2012
15 POWERFUL THINGS HAPPY PEOPLE DO DIFFERENTLY....
1. LOVE vs. FEAR. Well, I can tell you for sure that those people who are really happy, FEAR less and LOVE a lot more.
They see each moment, each challenge, each person as an opportunity to
discover more about themselves and the world around them.
2. ACCEPTANCE vs. RESISTANCE. Happy people understand that you can’t really change a situation by resisting it, but you can definitely change it by accepting that it is there and by understanding that there might be a reason for its existence. When something unpleasant happens to them, they don’t try to fight it, knowing that this will make the situation even worse, but rather, they ask themselves questions like: What can I learn from this? How can I make this better? and they go from there, focusing on the positive rather than on the negative. They always seem to see the glass half full no matter what happens to them.
3. FORGIVENESS vs. UNFORGIVENESS. Really happy people know that it’s not healthy to hold on to anger. They choose to FORGIVE and FORGET, understanding that FORGIVENESS is a gift they give to themselves first and foremost.
“Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.”Buddha
4. TRUST vs. DOUBT. They trust themselves and they trust the people around them. No matter if they talk to the cleaning lady or the C.E.O. of a multi billion company, somehow they always seem make the person they are interacting with feel like there is something unique and special about them.
They understand that beliefs become self-fulfilling prophecies, and because of that, they make sure to treat everybody with love, dignity and respect, making no distinctions between age, sex, social status, color, religion or race.
These are the great men that Mark Twain was talking about: “Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.” Mark Twain
5. MEANING vs. AMBITION. They do the things they do because of the meaning it brings into their lives and because they get a sense of purpose by doing so. They understand that “Doing what you love is the cornerstone of having abundance in your life” like Wayne Dyer puts it, and they care more about living a life full of meaning rather than, what in our modern society we would call, living a successful life.
The irony here is that most of the time they get both, success and meaning, just because they choose to focus on doing the things they love the most and they always pursue their heart desires. They are not motivated by money; they want to make a difference in the lives of those around them and in the world.
6. PRAISING vs. CRITICIZING. Happy people would probably agree with Carl’s Jung theory on resistance: “What you resist not only persists, but will grow in size”. They don’t criticize the absence of the behavior they want to reinforce, but rather, every time the behavior is present, even if it’s not that often, they know that by praising the person and the behavior, they will actually reinforce the positive behavior.
When a parent wants to make sure that his 7 years old boy will learn to always put the toys back in the box after he’s done playing with them, he will make sure not to focus on the many times the child won’t do it, criticizing him and his behavior, but rather, every time the little boy does put the toys back, the parent will praise him and his behavior and that is exactly how he will reinforce the positive behavior, and in the end geting the wanted results.
7. CHALLENGES vs. PROBLEMS. Happy people will see PROBLEMS as CHALLENGES, as opportunities to explore new ways of doing things, expressing their gratitude for them, understanding that underneath them all lies many opportunities that will allow them to expand and to grow.
8. SELFLESSNESS vs. SELFISHNESS. They do what they do not for themselves, but for the good of others, making sure that they bring meaning, empowerment and happiness in the lives of many. They look for ways to give and to share the best of themselves with the world and to make other people happy.
”Before giving, the mind of the giver is happy; while giving, the mind of the giver is made peaceful; and having given, the mind of the giver is uplifted.”Buddha
9. ABUNDANCE vs. LACK/POVERTY. They have an abundant mindset living a balanced life, achieving abundance in all areas of life.
10. DREAMING BIG vs. BEING REALISTIC. These people don’t really care about being realistic. They love and dare to dream big, they always listen to their heart and intuition and the greatness of their accomplishments scares many of us.
“Dream no small dreams for they have no power to move the hearts of men.” Goethe
11. KINDNESS vs. CRUELTY. They are kind to themselves and others and they understand the power of self love, self forgiveness and self acceptance.
12. GRATITUDE vs. INGRATITUDE. No no matter where they look, no matter where they are or with who, they have this capacity of seeing beauty where most of us would only see ugliness, opportunities, where most of us would only see struggles, abundance where most of us would only see lack and they express their gratitude for them all.
13. PRESENCE/ ENGAGEMENT vs. DISENGAGEMENT. They know how to live in the present moment, appreciating what they have and where they are, while still having big dreams about the future.
“When you are present, you can allow the mind to be as it is without getting entangled in it. The mind in itself is a wonderful tool. Dysfunction sets in when you seek your self in it and mistake it for who you are.” Eckhart Tolle
14. POSITIVITY vs. NEGATIVITY. No matter what happens to them, they always seem to keep a positive perspective on everything and by doing so, they tend irritate a lot of negative and “realistic” people.
15. TAKING RESPONSIBILITY vs. BLAMING. They take full ownership over their lives and they rarely use excuses. Happy people understand that the moment you choose to blame some outside forces for whatever it is that happens to you, you are in fact giving all your power away, and they choose to keep the power for themselves and taking responsibility for everything that happens to them.
2. ACCEPTANCE vs. RESISTANCE. Happy people understand that you can’t really change a situation by resisting it, but you can definitely change it by accepting that it is there and by understanding that there might be a reason for its existence. When something unpleasant happens to them, they don’t try to fight it, knowing that this will make the situation even worse, but rather, they ask themselves questions like: What can I learn from this? How can I make this better? and they go from there, focusing on the positive rather than on the negative. They always seem to see the glass half full no matter what happens to them.
3. FORGIVENESS vs. UNFORGIVENESS. Really happy people know that it’s not healthy to hold on to anger. They choose to FORGIVE and FORGET, understanding that FORGIVENESS is a gift they give to themselves first and foremost.
“Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.”Buddha
4. TRUST vs. DOUBT. They trust themselves and they trust the people around them. No matter if they talk to the cleaning lady or the C.E.O. of a multi billion company, somehow they always seem make the person they are interacting with feel like there is something unique and special about them.
They understand that beliefs become self-fulfilling prophecies, and because of that, they make sure to treat everybody with love, dignity and respect, making no distinctions between age, sex, social status, color, religion or race.
These are the great men that Mark Twain was talking about: “Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.” Mark Twain
5. MEANING vs. AMBITION. They do the things they do because of the meaning it brings into their lives and because they get a sense of purpose by doing so. They understand that “Doing what you love is the cornerstone of having abundance in your life” like Wayne Dyer puts it, and they care more about living a life full of meaning rather than, what in our modern society we would call, living a successful life.
The irony here is that most of the time they get both, success and meaning, just because they choose to focus on doing the things they love the most and they always pursue their heart desires. They are not motivated by money; they want to make a difference in the lives of those around them and in the world.
6. PRAISING vs. CRITICIZING. Happy people would probably agree with Carl’s Jung theory on resistance: “What you resist not only persists, but will grow in size”. They don’t criticize the absence of the behavior they want to reinforce, but rather, every time the behavior is present, even if it’s not that often, they know that by praising the person and the behavior, they will actually reinforce the positive behavior.
When a parent wants to make sure that his 7 years old boy will learn to always put the toys back in the box after he’s done playing with them, he will make sure not to focus on the many times the child won’t do it, criticizing him and his behavior, but rather, every time the little boy does put the toys back, the parent will praise him and his behavior and that is exactly how he will reinforce the positive behavior, and in the end geting the wanted results.
7. CHALLENGES vs. PROBLEMS. Happy people will see PROBLEMS as CHALLENGES, as opportunities to explore new ways of doing things, expressing their gratitude for them, understanding that underneath them all lies many opportunities that will allow them to expand and to grow.
8. SELFLESSNESS vs. SELFISHNESS. They do what they do not for themselves, but for the good of others, making sure that they bring meaning, empowerment and happiness in the lives of many. They look for ways to give and to share the best of themselves with the world and to make other people happy.
”Before giving, the mind of the giver is happy; while giving, the mind of the giver is made peaceful; and having given, the mind of the giver is uplifted.”Buddha
9. ABUNDANCE vs. LACK/POVERTY. They have an abundant mindset living a balanced life, achieving abundance in all areas of life.
10. DREAMING BIG vs. BEING REALISTIC. These people don’t really care about being realistic. They love and dare to dream big, they always listen to their heart and intuition and the greatness of their accomplishments scares many of us.
“Dream no small dreams for they have no power to move the hearts of men.” Goethe
11. KINDNESS vs. CRUELTY. They are kind to themselves and others and they understand the power of self love, self forgiveness and self acceptance.
12. GRATITUDE vs. INGRATITUDE. No no matter where they look, no matter where they are or with who, they have this capacity of seeing beauty where most of us would only see ugliness, opportunities, where most of us would only see struggles, abundance where most of us would only see lack and they express their gratitude for them all.
13. PRESENCE/ ENGAGEMENT vs. DISENGAGEMENT. They know how to live in the present moment, appreciating what they have and where they are, while still having big dreams about the future.
“When you are present, you can allow the mind to be as it is without getting entangled in it. The mind in itself is a wonderful tool. Dysfunction sets in when you seek your self in it and mistake it for who you are.” Eckhart Tolle
14. POSITIVITY vs. NEGATIVITY. No matter what happens to them, they always seem to keep a positive perspective on everything and by doing so, they tend irritate a lot of negative and “realistic” people.
15. TAKING RESPONSIBILITY vs. BLAMING. They take full ownership over their lives and they rarely use excuses. Happy people understand that the moment you choose to blame some outside forces for whatever it is that happens to you, you are in fact giving all your power away, and they choose to keep the power for themselves and taking responsibility for everything that happens to them.
DON'T BE SCARED...
Are you willing to throw away everything you've worked for just because you are scared to have everything you've always wanted?
My answer is NO!
My answer is NO!
LAURYN HILL'S CHILDRENS FATHER SET TO MARRY BRAZILIAN SUPER MODEL.....POOR MISS HILL....
Artist Rohan Marley--Lauryn Hill's ex and father to 5 of her kids--just got engaged to his girlfriend of about a year, model Isabeli Fontana. The latest development in this alleged love triangle inside...
39-year-old Rohan Marley has made his reggae love official for his 28-year-old Brazilian model girlfriend Isabeli. The twosome, who hit up the 2012 Met Gala last week (above pic), has confirmed their engagement to the Brazilian newspaper, Terra.
Last year, Rohan denied being the father of Lauryn's 6th child--even though many believed they were still very much together in private--and started dating Isabeli while Lauryn was pregnant. Now, Isabeli has confirmed the two are headed to the alter...in Ethiopia--the birthplace of Rastafarian culture...at some point in the near future.
Isabeli told the newspaper: "Rohan told me that we must return to their origins so that the marriage will last forever." Oh....ok. This will be Rohan's second marriage (his first was to his college girlfriend) and Isabeli's third marriage. Yes, third. She has two sons--1 from each previous marriage.
According to Huff Post: Marley, a former college football player, now runs a coffee company and has a line of headphones. Fontana has modeled for Victoria's Secret, Escada, Dolce & Gabbana, Revlon, Ralph Lauren and others, as well as serving as the face of Viktor & Rolf's Flowerbomb fragrance. She also appeared in the 2011 Pirelli calendar, and she recently received waaaay too much self-tanner in that now-infamous H&M bikini ad.
The couple recently attended the 2012 Met Gala together.
PERSONAL OPINION-DUDES NEVER, EVER, EVER MARRY "THE BABY'S MOMMA."
Last year, Rohan denied being the father of Lauryn's 6th child--even though many believed they were still very much together in private--and started dating Isabeli while Lauryn was pregnant. Now, Isabeli has confirmed the two are headed to the alter...in Ethiopia--the birthplace of Rastafarian culture...at some point in the near future.
Isabeli told the newspaper: "Rohan told me that we must return to their origins so that the marriage will last forever." Oh....ok. This will be Rohan's second marriage (his first was to his college girlfriend) and Isabeli's third marriage. Yes, third. She has two sons--1 from each previous marriage.
According to Huff Post: Marley, a former college football player, now runs a coffee company and has a line of headphones. Fontana has modeled for Victoria's Secret, Escada, Dolce & Gabbana, Revlon, Ralph Lauren and others, as well as serving as the face of Viktor & Rolf's Flowerbomb fragrance. She also appeared in the 2011 Pirelli calendar, and she recently received waaaay too much self-tanner in that now-infamous H&M bikini ad.
The couple recently attended the 2012 Met Gala together.
PERSONAL OPINION-DUDES NEVER, EVER, EVER MARRY "THE BABY'S MOMMA."
WHAT SHE SAID....ROYCE "IMMATURE CRY BABY" REED.....
On why Shaunie refuses to film with her:
Royce says she has no idea what Shaunie is upset with her about. She reached out to Shaunie but never received a response. Royce then went on to say Shaunie had issues with her doing interviews but Royce says she’s only defending herself.
On her relationship with Jennifer Williams:
She says she and Jen are cool. They both apologized to each other and are moving forward.
On celebrities saying “Basketball Wives” promotes bullying:
Royce said at one time she quit the show because she felt it was going the wrong route. She said she fought to have producers show another side of her and that’s why we get to see other aspects of her verses just seeing her fuss and fight with her castmates. She added that the show was like a mirror for her and helped her to change her life for the positive.
On Tami’s actions on the past two episodes:
Royce said she sees where a lot of people are coming from when it comes to her attitude. Royce explained why she never took sides and said what Tami DID and how she reacted was wrong. She said there’s another side of Tami that’s loving and funny.
On her having to be in a relationship and her relationship with her dad:
First Royce breaks down her previous relationships on the show. She then talks about her relationship with her father explaining how it’s hard for her to talk to her dad because of the way he speaks to her. She credits the show for opening up a line of communication between her father and herself and they are now at peace.
On her relationship status with Tampa Bay baller Dezmon Briscoe:
She says she and Dezmon are good. As far as the situation that happened on Twitter between Dezmon’s baby mama and her, she says it was crazy. She claims although him texting her was wrong, Dezmon has NEVER cheated on her and that the whole situation was extremely messy. She said she’s not leaving him because the world is telling her so.
WHAT SHE SAID....TAMI APOLOGIES YET AGAIN FOR BEING A BULLY.....
Get More: Basketball Wives (Season 4), Basketball Wives 4
OPEN LETTER TO TAMI R.-AS MUCH AS I LOVE YOU FOR YOUR GHETTO DIVA ANTICS, YOU ARE DOING THE SAME THING YOU DID 20 YRS. AGO ON THE REAL WORLD!!! GROW UP!!! NOTE TO SUZIE "ALWAYS IN THE MIDDLE OF SHIT", SOMEBODY NEEDS TO DROP HER OFF THE SHOW AND LET A CHICK NAMED SHAWTEE HAVE A TALK WITH HER ABOUT RUNNING HER MOUTH SO MUCH
May 11, 2012
WHAT SHE SAID....TAMI ROMAN FROM BBW IS TIRED OF BEING BULLIED....BUT NOT BULLYING
Tami Roman wants you to know that just because you see her cuttin’ the fool on national television that it doesn’t give you the right to bully her.
She recently spoke with Jamie Foster-Brown of Sister 2 Sister Magazine where she talked about being misunderstood by fans/viewers of the show.
Waking up to negativity on Twitter, negativity on Facebook, negativity on blogs, it’s emotionally and mentally draining, and things people say because they think they know you for watching you one hour of the week, it can weigh on your psyche.
She then goes on to talk about her upbringing, having issues from her past that make her such an aggressive person, and the negative feedback she receives on Twitter.
The way I’ve dealt with things over the course of my life comes from deep-routed issues. Everybody has to respect the fact that people are going to take the journey and cross bridges when they’re ready to do it. People judge based on how they would handle a situation. They don’t take into consideration how a person was raised. Everybody’s going to handle things differently.
You don’t have to follow me on Twitter. You really don’t. You don’t have to like me on Facebook. You don’t have to do any of that. If you disagree with how I handle something or the way a moment went down, you can say that and you don’t have to call me a b!tc#. You don’t have to call me a lowlife. You don’t have to call me a hood rat. You don’t have to call me out my name to get your point across. I can take any type of criticism as long as you’re respectful to me, but people have a tendency to chastise and belittle us and not really realizing they’re doing the [bullying].
Well, hello pot….
Read More: Tami Roman is tired of being bulliedMiss Jia: She ain’t for everybody… http://missjia.com/2012/05/09/tami-roman-tired-bullying/#ixzz1uahJraRy
THANKS TO MISSJIA.COM
WHAT SHE SAID....MONICA'S THOUGHTS ON THE BASKETBALL WIVES....
I respect the women on Basketball Wives because I think that’s their truth. It’s no different than if you take a group of men from the post office, you take a group of men from FedEx, the music industry, rappers, actors, whatever, and there will be different situations that may speak to each other.
And some of their situations are more similar.
Mines is totally different but I respect them because they use that show as a platform to do other things that they love. They own stores, they own cosmetics, they own so many different things. So I don’t have any issues with Basketball Wives at all because I think that they’re telling their truth.
My truth is not like that. My husband is very supportive. He’s an amazing man because he’s not afraid to be a man. He’s okay with saying how he feels about me and doing certain things to make sure his wife is okay. And he’s a family man to the tenth power, so that was important for me. So I think it is all about the individual and not the job or the sport.
You have to judge people based on who they are and what they show you and what I’ve experienced with my husband is nothing like that. But I believe they live in their own truth and I think that that’s okay.
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And some of their situations are more similar.
Mines is totally different but I respect them because they use that show as a platform to do other things that they love. They own stores, they own cosmetics, they own so many different things. So I don’t have any issues with Basketball Wives at all because I think that they’re telling their truth.
My truth is not like that. My husband is very supportive. He’s an amazing man because he’s not afraid to be a man. He’s okay with saying how he feels about me and doing certain things to make sure his wife is okay. And he’s a family man to the tenth power, so that was important for me. So I think it is all about the individual and not the job or the sport.
You have to judge people based on who they are and what they show you and what I’ve experienced with my husband is nothing like that. But I believe they live in their own truth and I think that that’s okay.
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HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH TEMPTATION.....FROM WISE DIVA
When you are in a relationship and you happen to hit a rough patch, it suddenly becomes easier to get distracted by other people. That harmless flirting starts to become a little more than flirting. The next thing you know, you are being tempted to get attention from someone other than you significant other.
It’s natural and normal to be attracted to other people when you are unavailable. It is how you handle it that makes or breaks a relationship. Some people use it as an excuse to get more attention they are missing. I think a lot of people are not prepared to deal with temptation because they didn’t expect to be tempted.
What do you do when you are involved with someone but you find yourself attracted to someone else? Does it mean you should break up and explore things with the new object of your desire?
When you are in a dating relationship, is it tough to stay focused on one person and build a relationship when you are tempted by other options?
May 10, 2012
LOVING HER MORE....
Ladies when you are questioning and agonizing about your relationships, always remember, A MAN SHOULD ALWAYS LOVE A WOMAN a little more than you love him.
When we love you more, there is NOTHING or NO ONE else that can come into the equation.
PRESIDENT OBAMA ENDORSES GAY MARRIAGES...
President Barack Obama is expected to make a statement endorsing gay marriage in America. Obama sat down with ABC’s Robin Roberts today — one day after North Carolina voters passed a constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriages and unions in that state.
The residents of North Carolina spoke with one voice, but Obama is expected to condemn their decision by speaking out against the amendment.
In his statements today, the president is expected to cave under pressure from special interest groups and gay rights organizations in an effort to win re-election.
Update: Here is the statement that Obama made endorsing gay marriage just moments ago during an interview with ABC’s Robin Roberts. OBAMA: I have to tell you that over the course of several years as I have talked to friends and family and neighbors when I think about members of my own staff who are in incredibly committed monogamous relationships, same-sex relationships, who are raising kids together, when I think about those soldiers or airmen or marines or sailors who are out there fighting on my behalf and yet feel constrained, even now that Don’t Ask Don’t Tell is gone, because they are not able to commit themselves in a marriage, at a certain point I’ve just concluded that for me personally it is important for me to go ahead and affirm that I think same sex couples should be able to get married.
Update: Here is the statement that Obama made endorsing gay marriage just moments ago during an interview with ABC’s Robin Roberts. OBAMA: I have to tell you that over the course of several years as I have talked to friends and family and neighbors when I think about members of my own staff who are in incredibly committed monogamous relationships, same-sex relationships, who are raising kids together, when I think about those soldiers or airmen or marines or sailors who are out there fighting on my behalf and yet feel constrained, even now that Don’t Ask Don’t Tell is gone, because they are not able to commit themselves in a marriage, at a certain point I’ve just concluded that for me personally it is important for me to go ahead and affirm that I think same sex couples should be able to get married.
May 9, 2012
THEME SONGS....
Personal Opinion....If your theme song is "Looking for Love in the the Wrong Places" and you are over the age of 30....Better yet, 28, because you are GROWN AS HELL, you may need to learn how to love yourself.
I love my folks but Im tired of seeing post after post from people who have been hurt, been used, been abused or mistreated and you KNEW what you were getting into. A PERSON SHOWS YOU WHO THEY ARE, IT IS UP TO YOU TO PAY ATTENTION.
That is all....
I love my folks but Im tired of seeing post after post from people who have been hurt, been used, been abused or mistreated and you KNEW what you were getting into. A PERSON SHOWS YOU WHO THEY ARE, IT IS UP TO YOU TO PAY ATTENTION.
That is all....
WHAT SHE SAID......ROYCE REED
Royce took to her VH1 blog today to give her 2 cents about the whole episode...and she let Tami (and everybody else except for Kesha) have it. No surprise there. Here's the excerpts:
I was honestly just hoping Kesha didn’t say her skin hurt. Tami seemed as though she was trying to find something to get upset about and she chose a cough. From the way the girls were seated in the car, to laughing and making faces behind Kesha’s back if you take a screen capture from that scene and mine from the van in Spain, it’s almost identical.I’m not sure what happened to Tami, but this isn’t the woman I’ve gotten to know. To see these women gang up on someone who has done nothing to them is embarrassing. I say ganging up because NO ONE did anything to stop it. If you don’t say anything you then become part of the problem. Who cares if Kesha was scared to get in the ocean with sharks and stingrays, I don’t believe I saw any of your asses in a swimsuit jumping in the water either. How are you going to call someone else scary when at least they put on the attire instead of saying “Oh Hell NO” in confessionals?????I applaud Suzie and Kesha for appreciating what Tahiti had to offer and attempting to stay drama free. I find it amazing when alcohol is used as liquid courage and an excuse to turn into the HULK. Most times I drink, I get emotional, horny, and just want to dance…..:side-eye: lol. But if you know that drinks cause you to have a temper, why indulge just because everyone else is? The whole scene with Tami and Kesha I shook my head. At some point you have to look at yourself and say “Damn, that wasn’t a good look. I need to change the way I speak to people and handle things because I look crazy.” If you don’t see it, your “so-called” friends have and should tell you the same. Tami, if Evelyn and Shaunie found no problem with Kesha’s questions, it wasn’t up to you to find one. Tami, if you HEARD Kesha said all these things about you, why not call out the person who told you so you can get all three parties together.I’m sure THAT PERSON was probably sitting at that table. I have an idea of two people who could’ve said it. One is known to talk a lot, and the other is a snake in the grass. If you’re going based off the footage that was shown, Kesha said “I seriously had to just NOT go off…and honestly, like, I could’ve came at Tami and said whatever I wanted to but there’s nothing I could’ve said that would’ve made her look worse than she was making herself look…Tami is like acting a fool” …She never said she wanted to, so why are you asking her to now??? The smirking on the side by Evelyn and Shaunie is a DAMN SHAME. Grown as women talking about a damn position! Grown ass women wanting to fight with no repercussions!I HEARD about what happened in Tahiti but seeing it now is an embarrassment and the sh!t is PISSING ME OFF!!!! GROWN ASS AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN feeding into the stereotype already placed on us…plus two!!!!!!!!
May 8, 2012
YOU SHOULD KNOW....
... that every relationship rests on three legs: accepting, supporting and challenging.
That's really it, isn't it? You want your relationships to be grounded on accepting each other as you are. On supporting each other through the inevitable ups and downs. On challenging each other to become more, to grow, to flourish. Which one of these is the more difficult one for you, and how are you going to practice it in the next 24 hours?
WHAT SHE SAID.....FACTS OR SHADE? ALL ABOUT MALIAH
Hey Sandra,
Hope you had a good weekend. Anyway this isn’t the blockbuster tea I was holding off from you previously, but I found this to be very interesting. So I’m told there is basically no money in video modeling to make a living. Many video vixens are doing videos for as little as $500 to be on set all day.
Here’s the clincher though: many video vixens have pushed themselves on blogs and to the forefront linking with celebs in hopes to be famous themselves. This has prevented most of them from wanting to be seen working regular 9 to 5 jobs, so many of them have resorted to stripping and escorting on the side as a way to stay “afloat”. A lot of women and men alike wonder how these video vixens maintain and live so extravagant, without ever working – and tweet and instagram expensive red bottom shoes (Christian Louboutin), Rolex watches, and thousand dollar dresses all day, while flying out overseas almost every month.
Well, here is the answer: there are super affluent older entrepreneur businessmen outside of the country in the Middle East, Europe, Africa, and Asia who prey on these video vixens in America and pay as much as $10,000-$30,000 per visit of these video vixens. They don’t want just any pretty woman, they want a video vixen who has been in a video or magazine in the US, so they can brag to their business associates and acquaintances that they were “with” a hot and popular American model. And they fly the video vixens out, put them in a hotel, and flourish them with expensive gifts and money in return for…. well you know..
The latest cesspool area is Istanbul, Turkey, who has requested the “services” of Drake’s ex stripper bew Maliah Michel and friend Rosee. Allegedly it’s a “manager” by the name of [Name and business removed], based out of Atlanta who is sending these video vixens, such as Rosa Acosta and Maliah, overseas on “assignments” to “host” at these rich affluent businessmen’s expense.
And the ladies are being flown out there to stay a week or a few days to make their money and then come back to states and show their extravagant gifts on social networks to give a perception that video vixens are making a lot of money “modeling”.
Yea and also not many strippers are banking well enough to just drop money on a rolex that was instagrammed in that picture by Maliah. And Maliah does not have anything tangible (business, company, stable income etc.) to buy that rolex with her own money. Maliah prides herself on Twitter in seducing men, rappers Drake and Sean Kingston were victims of her seduction. Most strippers are not in the mindset to buy a Rolex for themselves, unless it was given to them as a gift, ala Nene Leakes and that affluent white businessman on Atlanta Housewives. Strippers mindset are usually to buy the $2,000 red bottoms or Herve Leger dress, then, whatever money is leftover, pay their rent with.
p.s. I hear the affluent businessmen are very selective and sometimes racist in their demands of what type of video vixens they want. Maliah is usually the only exception of a Black woman they like, because she’s popular in the video vixen circuit in the US, and has been linked with Drake. They also pay top dollar for Kobe Bryant’s alleged mistress, Jessica Burciaga, and Reggie Bush’s jump-off, Claudia Sampedro.
p.s. I have attached pics of Maliah tweeting about flying to Istanbul and her pimpstress manager, [Name removed], telling her to bring her back some bracelets. Trust me all this is FACT!
from-sandrarose.com
May 2, 2012
WHAT SHE SAID....BASKETBALL WIVES MOVIE....WHY????
In case you haven’t gotten enough of the hair pulling, table jumping, bottle throwing debacle that is Basketball Wives the reality show, the movie version may be coming to a theater near you. Last year, Shaunie O’Neal reached out to ‘Jumping The Broom’ producer Tracey Edmonds via twitter, after hitting the jackpot with the first few seasons of Basketball Wives and the two came together to develop a concept that they pitched to various studios. The untitled pitch was eventually picked up by Fox Searchlight films and is now in development with ‘Jumping The Broom’ writer Elizabeth Hunter on board to pen the script. According to Variety, the plot will revolve around a young woman who relocates to Miami with her boyfriend after he gets drafted to the NBA. For some reason Savannah Brinson or even Adrienne Bosh comes to mind but the film is suppose to be based on Shaunie and a few of her friends.
Tracey tells Variety:
The beauty of a feature film is that we’ll have the ability to dig much deeper into the stories and characters that come from this very colorful world and create a very juicy, action-packed narrative.
Being at the right place at the right time last year, my ears perked up when I heard this movie was in the works. It was being pitched to an actress (that most of us adore but don’t see enough of) that I could see taking on the role as the main character.
And normally I’d roll my eyes at this plot as well as the idea to bring the show to the Big screen, however, there is actually a market for this film and if the characters are developed properly as well as the storyline, it may turn out to be a good flick. Not to mention Tracey Edmonds doesn’t normally sign off on ratchet material. I can only hope it’s a more accurate depiction of actual wives versus what we see on the reality show week to week.
Read more: Shaunie O’Neal Enlists Tracey Edmonds To Produce ‘Basketball Wives’ Movie | Necole Bitchie.com
May 1, 2012
WHAT HE SAID....Jerry LaVigne Jr
Good money will keep a woman around longer than good dick.
HAD TO LAUGH AT THIS....BUT HOW TRUE IS IT?
STATISTICS DON'T LIE....ATHLETES GET YOUR SAVINGS ON....
"By the time they have been retired for 2 years, 78% of former NFL players have gone bankrupt or are under financial stress. Within 5 years of retirement an estimated 60% of former NBA players are BROKE"
Read more: http://www.balleralert.com/profiles/blogs/baller-alert-featured-in-new-documentary-broke#ixzz1tdE2yuhs
THE DO'S AND DONT'S TO BEING A JUMP OFF....2012
♥ 1 - ESTABLISH THE RULES♥: From the beginning there should be an understanding of the relationship so that no one eventually gets hurt. You should ask your partner, Is this a monogamous relationship? Are you the girl on the side? Who calls/texts who? You know, the important stuff. You can't go breaking up a happy (or unhappy) home all because you THOUGHT somehow someway that you were the "wifey" when in actuality it was clear he was not interested in a relationship with you, just pure sex.
♥ 2 - STAY IN YOUR LANE♥: After the rules and regulations have been established it is important that you stay in your lane. Mentally remind yourself that you are not the girlfriend and more than likely never will be. Do not allow "LOVE" to come into play. You definitely do not want to begin doing girlfriend things with him if that is not your status. That means absolutely no dates, no movies, limiting the phone calls and no unnecessary family involvement. Again, your goal is NOT to break up a happy home or cause any type of unnecessary drama. Your goal is to get yours and let him get his!
♥ 3 - KEEP IT CLEAN♥ After every exit, clean up after yourself. Don't leave any personal items behind. Be a courteous side piece. That means before checking out the door, verify that all ear rings, shoes, toiletries, sex tapes, etc are in tow. Nobody likes a messy jump off. Cleaning your tracks will guarantee that you get continuous peen out of the deal.
♥ 4 - THIS NEVER SEES THE LIGHT OF DAY♥ This means no instagram, no facebook, and no proclaiming your love on twitter. In an age where we find ourselves venting on social networking sites you must be extremely cautious to make sure you don't let the cat out of the bag. Girlfriends are extremely sneaky and will jump to the conclusion if given even an inch of valuable information. Again, always remember, if you want to continue to get your guaranteed peen you must keep "Girlfriend" happy so that HE stays happy!
♥ 5 - DON'T GET MAD ♥: So what he doesn't call you as many times as you like? So what he doesn't even claim you in public? So what yall have been bumpin' uglies for 6 months and he goes out and gets him a girlfriend without saying a thing to you? SO F'IN WHAT!?!?Take some time to sit down and remind yourself that in the beginning it was not decided that the relationship between you two would be anything but physical. Why would he want the cow if he can have all the milk he wants for free. If that bothers you, don't get mad....get gone!
♥ 6 - BE PREPARED♥: If his girlfriend catches you, have your lie ready. If he forgot the condoms, have your own. A true bust it baby should be prepared for any foreseeable events that may occur. Remember safe sex is great sex and it's even better when you don't have to worry about a psycho girlfriend coming at your neck with a machete!
♥ 7 - DON'T BE FANTASIA♥ Even though you are a jump-off it doesn't mean that you don't have things to lose. Don't by any means jeopardize your family, career or sanity for the sake of any man. Absolutely do NOT call his girlfriend being ratchet, do NOT get his name tattooed on you and do NOT try to kill yourself by overdosing on Flintstone vitamins once sh-t hits the fan!
♥ 8 - DON'T GET DICKMATIZED♥: Penis can be purchased from nearly any local retailer. Schlong can be found on any corner. Don't sweat the small stuff. If he aint doing what you like, how you like and when you like..Get your like'in ass on! If he is the best thing crackin', knows how to bend it, flip it and throw it down....but his personality is wack...feel free to move around. HE is not and will not be the last man standing, always remember there is more where that came from!
♥ 9 -GET SOMETHING OUT OF THE DEAL♥ Don't let HIM be the only one to benefit from the arrangement. If you had to miss work because he blew ur back out the night before, and if you're always working on HIS time, remember that you are only as valuable as you make yourself out to be. It's okay to ask for gas money if he's inviting you over to his house. It's also okay to tell him to do that little thing YOU like for a change. If you can't have his heart, at least get a double cheeseburger.
♥ 10 - IT COULD HAPPEN 2 U ♥: Always Always ALWAYSkeep in mind that karma is a b-tch. If you do decide to mess with a man that has a girl remember it could happen to you. Your p-ssy aint golden, otherwise you wouldnt be the side-piece. If you are prepared to just chalk it up and take the "L" in life then proceed at your own discretion. For the ladies that don't mess with men that have girls, but still choose to be a jump-off don't expect a ring anytime soon. Don't expect ANYTHING anytime soon. If its a relationship you want, go out and get a man that wants the same!
Read more: http://www.balleralert.com/profiles/blogs/the-do-s-and-don-ts-of-being-a-jump-off#ixzz1tdAGy4fd
♥ 2 - STAY IN YOUR LANE♥: After the rules and regulations have been established it is important that you stay in your lane. Mentally remind yourself that you are not the girlfriend and more than likely never will be. Do not allow "LOVE" to come into play. You definitely do not want to begin doing girlfriend things with him if that is not your status. That means absolutely no dates, no movies, limiting the phone calls and no unnecessary family involvement. Again, your goal is NOT to break up a happy home or cause any type of unnecessary drama. Your goal is to get yours and let him get his!
♥ 3 - KEEP IT CLEAN♥ After every exit, clean up after yourself. Don't leave any personal items behind. Be a courteous side piece. That means before checking out the door, verify that all ear rings, shoes, toiletries, sex tapes, etc are in tow. Nobody likes a messy jump off. Cleaning your tracks will guarantee that you get continuous peen out of the deal.
♥ 4 - THIS NEVER SEES THE LIGHT OF DAY♥ This means no instagram, no facebook, and no proclaiming your love on twitter. In an age where we find ourselves venting on social networking sites you must be extremely cautious to make sure you don't let the cat out of the bag. Girlfriends are extremely sneaky and will jump to the conclusion if given even an inch of valuable information. Again, always remember, if you want to continue to get your guaranteed peen you must keep "Girlfriend" happy so that HE stays happy!
♥ 5 - DON'T GET MAD ♥: So what he doesn't call you as many times as you like? So what he doesn't even claim you in public? So what yall have been bumpin' uglies for 6 months and he goes out and gets him a girlfriend without saying a thing to you? SO F'IN WHAT!?!?Take some time to sit down and remind yourself that in the beginning it was not decided that the relationship between you two would be anything but physical. Why would he want the cow if he can have all the milk he wants for free. If that bothers you, don't get mad....get gone!
♥ 6 - BE PREPARED♥: If his girlfriend catches you, have your lie ready. If he forgot the condoms, have your own. A true bust it baby should be prepared for any foreseeable events that may occur. Remember safe sex is great sex and it's even better when you don't have to worry about a psycho girlfriend coming at your neck with a machete!
♥ 7 - DON'T BE FANTASIA♥ Even though you are a jump-off it doesn't mean that you don't have things to lose. Don't by any means jeopardize your family, career or sanity for the sake of any man. Absolutely do NOT call his girlfriend being ratchet, do NOT get his name tattooed on you and do NOT try to kill yourself by overdosing on Flintstone vitamins once sh-t hits the fan!
♥ 8 - DON'T GET DICKMATIZED♥: Penis can be purchased from nearly any local retailer. Schlong can be found on any corner. Don't sweat the small stuff. If he aint doing what you like, how you like and when you like..Get your like'in ass on! If he is the best thing crackin', knows how to bend it, flip it and throw it down....but his personality is wack...feel free to move around. HE is not and will not be the last man standing, always remember there is more where that came from!
♥ 9 -GET SOMETHING OUT OF THE DEAL♥ Don't let HIM be the only one to benefit from the arrangement. If you had to miss work because he blew ur back out the night before, and if you're always working on HIS time, remember that you are only as valuable as you make yourself out to be. It's okay to ask for gas money if he's inviting you over to his house. It's also okay to tell him to do that little thing YOU like for a change. If you can't have his heart, at least get a double cheeseburger.
♥ 10 - IT COULD HAPPEN 2 U ♥: Always Always ALWAYSkeep in mind that karma is a b-tch. If you do decide to mess with a man that has a girl remember it could happen to you. Your p-ssy aint golden, otherwise you wouldnt be the side-piece. If you are prepared to just chalk it up and take the "L" in life then proceed at your own discretion. For the ladies that don't mess with men that have girls, but still choose to be a jump-off don't expect a ring anytime soon. Don't expect ANYTHING anytime soon. If its a relationship you want, go out and get a man that wants the same!
Read more: http://www.balleralert.com/profiles/blogs/the-do-s-and-don-ts-of-being-a-jump-off#ixzz1tdAGy4fd
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